Can Love Change a Narcissist? [I Want To Spread Narcissism Awareness]

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Have you found a website claiming it's possible for a narcissist to change with the right approach?

Do you feel you can believe the author because perhaps they have a PhD and years of psychology practice under their belt?

Here's the truth. It’s a nice kumbaya theory.

In this video, you will learn the truth about whether it's possible for a narcissist to change so you can stop the confusion and get on with your life.

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Angelwings89 · 41-45, F

Well mine is trying extremely hard to convince me that he's changed. Sigh.

SageWanderer · 70-79, M

@Angelwings89 Mine tried too. That lasted a few days.

Angelwings89 · 41-45, F

@SageWanderer he's been at it for weeks. I'm so tired of it.

berangere · 80-89, F

@Angelwings89 You are tired of it because you know it is just a ploy,changing to suit you would not suit the narcissist.

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

@Angelwings89 don't fall for it!

Angelwings89 · 41-45, F

@berangere I'm honestly just so tired of him. When when he's nice. Cause when he's nice and affectionate it feels so fake.

Angelwings89 · 41-45, F

@samueltyler2 I'm not. I almost can't wait for him to just go back to being cold. I hate this fake crap. And I have to play along, say "I love you too" even though I don't.

SageWanderer · 70-79, M

@Angelwings89 It gets old once you see through it. And know how fake it is.

Angelwings89 · 41-45, F

@SageWanderer yes it does. He's done this a few times before. I fell for it hard last time, it was a few years ago. It really hurt and I'm not going through that again. He is full blown love bombing me right now. And I feel nothing. It actually really annoys me.

berangere · 80-89, F

@Angelwings89 You feel nothing because you know exactly what to expect.

Angelwings89 · 41-45, F

@berangere I guess so. Sometimes I wonder if I'm so damaged that I'm not able to love anymore

SageWanderer · 70-79, M

@Angelwings89 I wouldn't say never but it will take a special kind of person for you to trust. First things first and that is to heal yourself.

berangere · 80-89, F

@Angelwings89 Sadly their destructive behaviour can have an impact on those they target,I personally was too afraid to fall in the same trap again and lost my trust,but it does not have to be this way once you get away from the narcissist and maintain NO CONTACT and find a therapist who specialises in narcissistic abuse and can help you on the road to recovery,it can be done,but not as long as one stays with the narcissist.

berangere · 80-89, F

@SageWanderer I could not agree with you more!

OogieBoogie · F

@Angelwings89 [big]
ABORT

ABORT

ABORT [/big]!!!🤣

OogieBoogie · F

@Angelwings89 Don't let them damage you(I know - we here have felt that damage too, and still deal with it)....

Remember who you were....

You will find your way
Back to a heart filled with freedom and strength 💜💜💜

berangere · 80-89, F

@OogieBoogie Yes but that can rarely be achieved if one stays with the narcissist.

OogieBoogie · F

@berangere oh agreed!!!

Definitely!!!

What ever inner strength and self love one regains while within a relationship with a narc, will be systematically destroyed by them by whatever means possible.

Self healing can really only ever be achieved by leaving....... Or by an incredibly strong and financially independent partner.

berangere · 80-89, F

@OogieBoogie And if you stay with a narc you will not stay strong and financially independent for long,they will see to that.

OogieBoogie · F

@berangere amen!