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KiwiDan Yeah... I feel like my approach is what makes/ breaks it - If I just reply or Dm 1st (rare) I feel like they block straight off thinking I'm the troll. I introduce myself and say how long I have been here for now, and that helps ease - its anon on here, which is good - but not great for trust issues as a lot of us that are in pain are mixed in with people that like causing pain as well :(