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I've been getting increasingly depressed over this last week or so, and I really don't know why. I've not changed anything which is usually what causes this to happen, and I've been feeling more suicidal and rejected than usual. To be clear, when I say rejected I'm not referring to women turning me down, but people I've reached out to barely responding.
KiwiDan
31-35, M
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elafina 路 36-40, F
People have their lives, their own little battles and preoccupations.... don't take this personally, even though, it's hard not to. Maybe join a group or club, where there'd be a common place of interest, instead of the generic meeting up, that when others are busy it's getting meh 馃槍
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KiwiDan 路 31-35, M
@elafina I get that people have their own lives, but the silence just tells me I'm not wanted - they claim to be my friends, but it feels like I'm putting in more effort than it's worth. Also I run the club that I would be going to, and while there is some hanging out with friends there, I really don't feel like part of the group any more.
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elafina 路 36-40, F
@KiwiDan it sounds like you are transitioning to another you maybe... Sometimes cocooning take the form of isolation and depression ? I'm not taking your words lightly, know that I hear you.
Maybe you've outgrown your groups and habits and need a renewal ? Could be the ending of a larger cycle...?
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KiwiDan 路 31-35, M
@elafina Maybe. But that's not something I'll know for sure for a while yet.
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elafina 路 36-40, F
@KiwiDan if it's not working with ppl at the moment, maybe move to doing something else .. can you go for a run, hit the gym, or go for a walk maybe?
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elafina 路 36-40, F
@KiwiDan I'm sorry Dan, I want to say that I care. Suggesting stuff is my way, but maybe all you need is rest and not to run around. Hope you are feeling a little better 馃尭
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KiwiDan 路 31-35, M
@elafina I know. Thanks.
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elafina 路 36-40, F
@KiwiDan here, have some tea and cookies 馃槉
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KiwiDan 路 31-35, M
@elafina Thanks so much 馃グ
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