My grandparents are pushing me to get a job but I too lazy and depressed. How can I get them to stop bugging me?

I’ve been jobless for two months and I’ve been moping around laying in bed depressed and curled up in bed crying. I have gained 20 pounds. My dad passed away three months ago and things went down hill! My grandparents (my late moms parents) have been on be about finding a job and keep telling me to get out of bed and do something useful for myself and my dad wouldn’t want me to live like this l. My grandpa said enough is enough and get out of bed now! I need to get help. He said life goes in and I still need to focus on myself, live life and my education. I failed my two classes and I have a summer class starting next week and I need to FOCUS on that.
How can I focus on my education when my daddy is dead? People expect me to move on so quickly.

Blazer420 · 36-40, M

In my opinion the best way to deal with a death of a close person is to stay as busy as possible. It's hard to do stuff when you're depressed but once you actually start going and make yourself get into something then it's not so bad. Find a job that's easy/enjoyable and start making money. I guess someone has to enjoy making money n hate being broke and bored in order for that to really work thou