Where to begin? I need help. Please read and reply with as much knowledge as you can. I'm not looking for any fight for arguments. I'm just looking fo
One of my twins was born helplessly disabled due to severe hydrocephalus, which led to severe cerebral palsy. It starts with you from all the brain surgery resulted in pretty bad epilepsy. He's so far off the charts that he can't really be tested but we know he's also very autistic. Not like on the Spectrum as people say these days I mean like he is the Spectrum . he covers every bit of it. It's evident in his severe sensitivity issues.. I mean severe.
It just so happens that his mom is dying of stage 4 lung and brain cancer. I would really like for him to look his best at her imminent funeral and hopefully before that I'd like her to see him looking his best also at least once before she goes
Due to his severe sensitivity issues, you will not let people touch his head or get anywhere near it with Clippers or scissors or anything like that. We have to cut little bits and pieces here and there when we can while he's asleep. It's a never-ending haircut.
My barber of the last 20-something years has wholeheartedly agreed to teach me what I need to know in order to give my son the first decent haircut he's ever had in his life of 24 years, that wasn't done by a brain surgeon in pre-op. Although, I do have to give his old dentist a big shout out. He used to have to sedate him for those same sensitivity issues in order to clean his teeth. The man was a saint. He would bring his own personal Clippers to the clinic the days my son would show up for his appointment and while he was sedated (my son 😉), and would give him a complete GI Joe Buzz cut, free of charge.
Okay, here's where I need the help. Im considering getting my son stoned a little bit before taking him to the barber. I've got a decarboxylator and some decent wedding cake, like a half pound of it , LOL don't ask, and if you don't think he's special enough yet, my son is also fed 100" of his nutrients through a G-tube that we've been feeding him through since he was 5 years old. So getting it into him is not going to be a problem. I'm just struggling with the ethics of it all. What are your opinions of me slipping a finite amount of Narcotics into my son without his knowledge or any experience with such a narcotic in the past. Although that Risperdal he was on for a good part of his life probably makes the little bit of weed I'm suggesting seem like a couple drops of lavender in the essential oil diffuser in comparison. But I'm still torn.
I've got almost 50 years of experience smoking weed. It's not the drug I'm worried about. Like I said, it really is the ethics. His whole life I've been his protector . I feel like I might be to betraying him a little bit. On the other hand, this could be what he's been needing to dial down these sensitivity issues.
I read an article on it years ago about a man who gave his young Autistic daughter marijuana and it was very beneficial to her. I think I recall the only downside being public opinion since she was like 8 years old or something like that but it really calmed her down without droning her out, making her much more functional
Also. Does anyone have any advice on making tea from decarbed weed? I'm not sure if this wedding cake will grind into a fine enough powder to make it through the little check valve in his button (connection point for the g-tube). ..and oral delivery hasn't been an option for over 19 years and was a long shot faint option the 5 years it ever was an option, hence the G-tube.
I'm really hoping we can all come together and regardless of our perspectives, we only make constructive, forward progress on this post. Let's at least try?
🕊🕊
It just so happens that his mom is dying of stage 4 lung and brain cancer. I would really like for him to look his best at her imminent funeral and hopefully before that I'd like her to see him looking his best also at least once before she goes
Due to his severe sensitivity issues, you will not let people touch his head or get anywhere near it with Clippers or scissors or anything like that. We have to cut little bits and pieces here and there when we can while he's asleep. It's a never-ending haircut.
My barber of the last 20-something years has wholeheartedly agreed to teach me what I need to know in order to give my son the first decent haircut he's ever had in his life of 24 years, that wasn't done by a brain surgeon in pre-op. Although, I do have to give his old dentist a big shout out. He used to have to sedate him for those same sensitivity issues in order to clean his teeth. The man was a saint. He would bring his own personal Clippers to the clinic the days my son would show up for his appointment and while he was sedated (my son 😉), and would give him a complete GI Joe Buzz cut, free of charge.
Okay, here's where I need the help. Im considering getting my son stoned a little bit before taking him to the barber. I've got a decarboxylator and some decent wedding cake, like a half pound of it , LOL don't ask, and if you don't think he's special enough yet, my son is also fed 100" of his nutrients through a G-tube that we've been feeding him through since he was 5 years old. So getting it into him is not going to be a problem. I'm just struggling with the ethics of it all. What are your opinions of me slipping a finite amount of Narcotics into my son without his knowledge or any experience with such a narcotic in the past. Although that Risperdal he was on for a good part of his life probably makes the little bit of weed I'm suggesting seem like a couple drops of lavender in the essential oil diffuser in comparison. But I'm still torn.
I've got almost 50 years of experience smoking weed. It's not the drug I'm worried about. Like I said, it really is the ethics. His whole life I've been his protector . I feel like I might be to betraying him a little bit. On the other hand, this could be what he's been needing to dial down these sensitivity issues.
I read an article on it years ago about a man who gave his young Autistic daughter marijuana and it was very beneficial to her. I think I recall the only downside being public opinion since she was like 8 years old or something like that but it really calmed her down without droning her out, making her much more functional
Also. Does anyone have any advice on making tea from decarbed weed? I'm not sure if this wedding cake will grind into a fine enough powder to make it through the little check valve in his button (connection point for the g-tube). ..and oral delivery hasn't been an option for over 19 years and was a long shot faint option the 5 years it ever was an option, hence the G-tube.
I'm really hoping we can all come together and regardless of our perspectives, we only make constructive, forward progress on this post. Let's at least try?
🕊🕊
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