I Live With A Spouse With Aspergers

So, you believe your husband is narcissistic -- a character disorder that is virtually impossible to change since narcissists think they are fine -- has Aspergers, is touch aversive, sociopathic, and not into romantic relationships.

Yet, you have chosen to marry him and to remain with him. What are you getting out of being married to a man who appears to have very little to offer you when it comes to things like intimacy, kindness, affection and compassion?He also is unlikely to change.


Have you given any thought to what is unhealthy about yourself that would cause you to choose and to remain in such an unrewarding relationship? You can't change your husband. You can choose to change yourself and your life.

what is aspergers

Whatever it is if your husband is in denial then think of it from his point of view do you want to believe that you have a problem
If you can MAKE YOURSELF BELIEVE that there is no problem.

I have epilepsy for years although I deep down knew the truth I tried to live in denial because I kind of took the attitude if I live in denial maybe it will go away I think thats just human nature

Please post an update. Have you been able to find a person to help look after your 3 autistic children? You are in a difficult situation having a husband who has given you STDs and is narcissistic. Perhaps the counseling services in base can give you support tower the challenges you face.

Maybe the problem is not what kind of disorders he has but rather who he is as a person.

From the way you describe him, he doesn't sound like the man of your dreams. Sometimes when we are not satisfied or happy with our partner we start fishing for labels, like narcissism, Aspergers and sociopathic tendencies.

Hi -- me again. I checked your profile out because you said you had a son with Autism.
Now I see you believe your husband has Aspergers.
Those are 2 topics I know a little something about..I am going to read these responses and then we can talk more.

so how does a good looking girl who seems to love romance end up with someone like you did? seems an odd couple

did you ever consider moving on?

Maybe he"s just an asshole

Wow!

*hugs*