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LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
I mean, kind of? I'm still not fully over it, but ever since I was chased by a bumblebee when I was five, I was terrified of bees, wasps, etc.
For me, exposure in a safe way was how I fixed that. I educated myself about the benefits of honeybees, bumblebees, and other beneficial insects, as well as learning about all the bee mimics who couldn't hurt a flea, literally.
You still won't catch me relaxing if there's a yellow jacket or other wasp flying around, because those guys are actually dangerous. But I can observe bees pollinating flowers without hitting the ceiling, and I actually find it relaxing. Cute little guys.
For me, exposure in a safe way was how I fixed that. I educated myself about the benefits of honeybees, bumblebees, and other beneficial insects, as well as learning about all the bee mimics who couldn't hurt a flea, literally.
You still won't catch me relaxing if there's a yellow jacket or other wasp flying around, because those guys are actually dangerous. But I can observe bees pollinating flowers without hitting the ceiling, and I actually find it relaxing. Cute little guys.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@LordShadowfire That's really great!! My fear is being around new people, and feeling panicked😟
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@Coralmist Well, people are less likely to sting you than bees, so there's that. 😆