I'm a shitty person

I'm unmotivated, rude and selfish. I'm 19 and can't do something as simple as doing the dishes for my mum when she's busy working night shifts. I struggle to get up and do anything good in my life or help others around me when they're struggling. I don't think I have any worth as a person or life. Maybe this is self-pity, I don't know. I'm just over being me and hurting those around me. I want to change but I'm just so unmotivated for everything.

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NativePortlander1970 ·

Now that you recognize it you can begin changing for the better, 19 is a very difficult age, you're transitioning from child to adult, and it can be overwhelming. Start by helping your mother around the house, doing things for her, the more she compliments you the better you will feel about yourself and motivate you more.