I feel like I'm going crazy

I told a female friend that I thought I was ugly, and she was (and still is) insistent that I am in fact good looking. I asked a couple of other female friends if that was true and they said yes. Apparently I also have beautiful eyes. It just really confuses me because I've kind of just assumed my ugliness due to getting rejected so much. I have a lot to think about... like wtf is wrong with me then?! XD

Sorry, I know there's no reason for anyone to want to read this. A heavily ingrained aspect of how I see myself being challenged is throwing me off.

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Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

What you should ask your female friends is if you're so good looking, how come they only want you as a friend and haven't flirted with you?

They can't sugar coat that answer as well as the first one.

My guess is you're overweight /obese which is a turn off for many.

Getting rejected is every general single man's every day life. Unless you look like an Instagram model.

Just spilling some harsh truths that can help you in the long run.

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@Queendragonfly I don't care. This post was me reflecting on/venting about a core belief being challenged.

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@KiwiDan "Wtf is wrong with me then!?" sounded like you asked for input.

But I'll leave you to it.

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@Queendragonfly Sorry, that was meant as something rhetorical and not serious. Normally I put XD after non-serious stuff but seem to have forgotten this time.