I feel like I'm going crazy

I told a female friend that I thought I was ugly, and she was (and still is) insistent that I am in fact good looking. I asked a couple of other female friends if that was true and they said yes. Apparently I also have beautiful eyes. It just really confuses me because I've kind of just assumed my ugliness due to getting rejected so much. I have a lot to think about... like wtf is wrong with me then?! XD

Sorry, I know there's no reason for anyone to want to read this. A heavily ingrained aspect of how I see myself being challenged is throwing me off.

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Pfuzylogic · M

I have seen you post for many years here. Many times you do lack self confidence but you aren’t alone.
Find a strength that you do have and it doesn’t have to be your good looks but something you are either talented or gifted in. That strength can be the foundation of your self confidence and that will always attract the ladies.

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@Pfuzylogic I'm slowly working at that. Progress is glacial (sometimes even regression), but it is getting better little by little.

Pfuzylogic · M

@KiwiDan Women are attracted to strength especially in a potential spouse. It doesn’t have to be physical strength but that can also be an asset that attracts.
You got this!