I used someone for sex and now I feel horrible. It’s not like he didn’t know it was just sex,...

BlueVeins · 22-25

He knew what he was getting into, sometimes people catch feels and that's not your fault.

That said, you probably shouldn't block someone just for trying to take things in another direction. You're both adults, you should just tell him that you felt overwhelmed in the moment and don't want anything more.

Rilyn · 31-35, F

What's done is done. Important thing is the way forward like the recent mess-up I did, which I'm not sure is reversible. Feel better soon 🌹

SW-User

Learn from this and don't use someone like that again.
Take some time off of everything. After half an hour or so, start thinking of your goals. Keep those secret and pick up yourself.
<3

SW-User

I hope you will somehow find the peace and strength to go through all this.
Regarding the other guy, he'll live.

Mindfulness

Give yourself a break.
No matter what, don't be so hard on yourself.

gdon39 · 46-50, M

Idk what to say about how you are feeling but I can share with you that I hade a “just sex” with an ex who wanted to play. All was well and fine until she started calling me and then called me out to her friends saying I treated her like a c*m dumpster and I was no good.

She’s the one who initiated it and I tried to be sweet but look how that worked out.

Never go back

Northguy1 · 56-60, M

You used poor judgment. It's okay to be human; we all make mistakes sometimes. The important thing is not to torment yourself over it. Approach it as a learning experience: That sort of thing just isn't for you. Look at yourself in the mirror; say "I'm sorry." Forgive yourself. You forgive other people when they make a mistake, it's okay to forgive yourself.

WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F

You’re strong, and have been through so much. You got this. ❤️The hurt will fade and you’ll be even stronger for it. Maybe just take time away from hook ups and such. Not good to do something to get a release, just to end up in pain and more stressed than before.

SW-User

You are better than that ...you are going through a tough time and trying to navigate your way out of it ... you won't hurt forever ...we all make mistakes

Barefooter25 · 46-50, M

Learn from your mistakes and move on. Being in bad relationships is unfortunately a part of life. Believe me, I know.

vic7ory

I wonder if it will ever stop but that's just insanity

Raymuundo · 46-50, M

I am ok with being used 😉

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

You aren’t the first person or the last person to do this