Do you ever accidentally feel guilty instead of really grateful when people are kind to you?
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ViciDraco · 36-40, M
Depends upon the kindness. It feels awkward when I get too much praise. I do not feel like I am all that special and not really deserving of a lot of praise.
When it comes to kindness in action, I feel less weird. I tend to help people openly without counting favors. I usually do not feel bad letting others do small favors for me because I know I'm good to reciprocate or I've already given help in the past. I put enough good out that I don't feel weird about allowing others to do good for me.
But I do feel really bad when I start getting raised on a pedestal.
When it comes to kindness in action, I feel less weird. I tend to help people openly without counting favors. I usually do not feel bad letting others do small favors for me because I know I'm good to reciprocate or I've already given help in the past. I put enough good out that I don't feel weird about allowing others to do good for me.
But I do feel really bad when I start getting raised on a pedestal.