Non exclusive relationship ?

Poll - Total Votes: 10

Women have you deeply loved some one and felt comfortable without labels ?

Men would you be able to relate to a woman who loves without labels?

You can only vote on one answer.

Does anyone understand the psychology / mentality, behind a woman who can & currently does .. without issue love a man deeply .

Obviously wants him to remain in her life ..for as long as is naturally permitted .

Yet not be bothered about marriage, labels or even exclusivity with the guy.

She has romantic feelings for him.. is very attracted, loving , caring , tactile toward him.
Enjoys words of affirmation. As most women in a relationship would .

But at the same hand finds she doesn't need to reassured all of the time .

Her contentment comes in knowing that he exists in this world.

In her everyday life she is self-confident, with a
open minded disposition .

She doesn't live with him & would enjoy more of his company, but feels this may naturally evolve over time.

If the situation doesn't evolve she feels okay with waiting for the universe to decide.

Her attitude is fate is the decider.

My question - is this the ultimate example of my unconditional love for him

Or is there something missing ?

Can anyone else female or male relate?

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YoungPoet345 · 26-30, F

Love is different to everyone. As long as there’s honesty and consent it’s all good. Can’t personally relate though. When I am deeply in love, I want to commit to the person. I can’t love more than one person and I want monogamy.

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@YoungPoet345 thanks for you input and yes I don't disagree with you at all .

Especially when it comes to the subject of monogamy I believe it's ideal grade of excellence that a couple should strive for and be proud of having achieved.

Having acknowledged this at your age , the laws of nature dictate that you indeed must view relationships this as standard. Reason being sometime soon.

You may typically be looking toward creating and raising a family of own .
Nothing in the laws of nature would suggest that choosing anything less than the ideal mate, alongside monogamy.

Would be an acceptable standard. Nor should this be the case as consistent love and safety are the basic need for any family unit to strive.

However my point in making this post. Is that there can arrive a time in a person's life , some one who perhap is much more mature finds herself loving a man solely f who is he is , and how his presence in this world enhances her life .

Yes monogamy is still her ideal standard.

Yet because loving him is not factoring in other conditions, which if she were younger would have had to have been conditional . Because raising a family dictates it.

His status , finances etc ( please infill here)

There comes a point where an older woman can be in love with a man solely for who he is and what his presence means to her.

And long as he his feelings are genuine & loving to her . Life indeed can continue. While nothing else outside of how feel as a couple matters at all 💕

YoungPoet345 · 26-30, F

@Kae20 makes sense