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Might continuous complaining

be your strategy to get your point across...Or do you work with the world as you find it, not as you alone would have it to be ? 🤔
Continuous complaining could be the result of many things.

- There are those that only see fault with world outside of them. And they always notice that of others because they see perfection in themselves. The standard is always about “what they would have done”.

- There are those who complain but bear no responsibility to take action to change the situation.

- And there are those who don’t know when to quit and accept when it’s not within their power to change the outcome:
Trippin · F
@CookieCrumbs Well said. I suppose that perhaps I tend to see the singular in that... Any time I find fault in...what simply IS. It then remains ME whom I complain to for it is I with the problem.
@Trippin
I usually ask myself first before I complain: “is it something I could change?”

If the answer is NO, I complain only to the one who could change the desired outcome for me.
Smokey · 46-50, M
Anyone that truly knows me , knows I'm not a complainer at all, but in one case recently I may have chosen to be heard publicly. I apologize 😔
Smokey · 46-50, M
@KuroNeko its my nature
Trippin · F
@Smokey A statement made in order for feelings to be known is not a complaint. Thats a declaration of having no fear to speak. ❤️
Smokey · 46-50, M
@Trippin well put, thank you
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
Personally I like to complain in a humorous way. It lets off some steam.
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Firegod74 · 46-50, M
Complainers are focus on problem people. I'm more focus on solution people.
Trippin · F
@Firegod74 I lean toward the later myself.
HannahSky · F
Idk complaints take forms and procedures and waiting to be heard, and no guarantees of the outcome you want and you end up in a long line with other complaints and unresolved issues. They just become more of a problem for the person complaining it seems.
HannahSky · F
@Trippin some people are filled with them it seems.
Trippin · F
@HannahSky Sadly so.
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JustNik · 51-55, F
On a snarky day, I can find it momentarily cathartic to complain. Then I feel like a slug because my evil head will remind me how good I have it. 😂 Where things are seriously wrong, action solves more than complaints and where they’re not, life is more pleasant when you can slide over and make room.
Trippin · F
@JustNik Wow! I love that! Well said. That thinker in our heads...that ego...certainly thrives on " poor me "... We are not our thoughts.
Gangstress · 41-45, F
It all depends on what it was for me. Some can be caused by man creation some can be nature. I'm more inclined to complain about man then a cause of nature
Trippin · F
@Gangstress Heard... And an interesting perspective. 🤔
Gangstress · 41-45, F
@Trippin hmm 🙁
Trippin · F
@Gangstress Why hmmmm...☹️🤔
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Personally I can`t be bothered complaining any more. I find it does me no good and no one listens to me anyway. 🤭
Trippin · F
@Degbeme Zen status is within your reach... Keep at it. 💜
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@Degbeme I'll listen to you anytime.
SW-User
Continuous complaining is just another's way of seeing it. :)
Change doesn't happen by shutting up and just letting it be. I'm not sure if complaining works, but it keeps things fresh in other's minds. lol
Take that downvote option they keep bringing up again and again... of course people will complain because they added it and still keep the damn thing going with posts about voting on it.
Trippin · F
@SW-User I hear you... Quite possibly the origin of this post. Id join hands with any revolutionary in terms of progression... It is the repetitive means some seek to fight with that wears me thin. 🤷‍♀️
SW-User
@Trippin When I think about it... the whole mess kinda wears on me. lol
I see too much of the same on different topics.
I will say this though... I'm really not into posting much if things stay as they are. Been seeing a lot of comments "hidden" to day and not sure why since they have nothing adult or offensive.
Pfuzylogic · M
Embrace the conformity! ⚓️
Pfuzylogic · M
@Trippin When I say conformity; I am referring to the military. Too much variation and you have a force that capitulates against the enemy. As far as integrating my personality...that can be quite the different matter!
Trippin · F
@Pfuzylogic Heard.... And know well you fit snug in the latter.
Pfuzylogic · M
@Trippin
Every now and then I would be trippin...literally!
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
I try to play the cards delt to me
Trippin · F
@vetguy1991 Best hand to play in my opinion.
SW-User
@vetguy1991 Do you fold, or keep working with what you have to make a better outcome for your hand?
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
@SW-User I keep working on my hand
Magenta · F
Most want to feel they are in control, even when not. So they try and micro manage the world around them, me thinks.

The endless complaining seems more like wanting to have their way, like a child does to wear down the parent.
Magenta · F
@Trippin That's a great point. Maybe we need to be looking within versus out,to determine why we are so bothered.
Trippin · F
@Magenta I think maybe anyways 🤷‍♀️. Just my opinion.
What is...is. 99% of my complaints are focused on myself...why do I have a problem with the situation. If I can't activity change it... I leave it be an not allow it to be my focus.
Magenta · F
@Trippin Because you're smart. If you can't change it, get on with life. 🤗
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
it really depends on the situation
Trippin · F
@DeluxedEdition Perhaps..🤔
SW-User
It depends on the topic…I’m not a big complainer but I will stand up for what I think is right. Suffragettes were probably seen as complainers who refused to accept the world as it was. I’m also one for a happy life so don’t sweat the small stuff
Trippin · F
@SW-User Perfect balance ❤️
I try to make the best of what comes at me.
Trippin · F
@NerdyPotato Adaptation to what simply...is. Quite a peaceful way to...be.
I've complained so much they carved 'Ding dong the witch is dead' on my tombstone.
I'm trying to get it changed before I die, but there's a lot of red tape to go through.

♪ Please mothers, tell your children not to do what I have done ♫

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you have to work with what you have, otherwise it just won’t work.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I find that people who complain have a hard time accepting change.
Trippin · F
@iamonfire696 I agree. Roll with the flow perhaps our best advantage. ❤️
SW-User
As Epictetus said "We must make the best of what is under our control and take the rest as its nature is"
Trippin · F
@SW-User Good stuff. If its beyond me.... That's where it stays.

 
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