This is so true🥲

I remember in teen days I once tried to be more social than usual by cutting the usual distance with someone I liked (I usually stay about 2-3M away out of shyness and some kind of traditional old school idea about respecting "their space"). I tried to act casual and confident by standing close and even by biting into my lovely green apple next to this guy while talking. First time I made a step towards someone. It seemed like he automatically smiled a little extra. I am certain that my acting attempt was failed and funny to watch.. I was embarrassed but maintained the show. I learned that day that I prefer to make people laugh as opposed to the awkward serious silence xD I think it was so difficult to "act relaxed" but the more you attempt, the easier it gets! I work a job that requires a lot of communication and nobody knows that I am actually super duper mega shy :)

For me its trying to act cool, calm, and collected. Acting like I don't care what happens. Acting like I don't care if someone doesn't like me. Staying cool when I get ignored or overlooked. Pretending I'm a lone wolf that doesn't need anyone

I'm in a horrible mood but I have to admit this is funny.

Yes, it is. I know all about it. 😓

woman do have it easier!

I feel that so much lol

I have always had people tell me I am good at public speaking. The only thing I can think of when they are complimenting me on that is wondering how they did not hear the quaver in my voice? How did they not see me shaking? Because it sure felt like my joints would be dislocating themselves while I was talking.

Yep