Loving a cheater

I think that a lot o people have been in relationships and their partner cheated sometimes they break up sometimes they forgive. What bothers me the most is if your partner cheats and thinks its ok this partner will tell you that you are the love they always wanted but when you try to work it out with them they will say they are sorry but they do not feel any need to give a explanation as to why they cheated.

They think sorry is enough and they want to prove that they are a good Christian woman now and I should accept this as now she could make me very happy..

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LadyGrace

Were you faithful? Have you always told her the truth and been honest with her?

LadyGrace

Just a reminder. Christian women don't act like that. That is not even the characteristic of a Christian woman, though they may claim to be. This woman is very manipulative and maybe a narcissist. Time to get away IF you are being controlled. To protect yourself, but you both must sit down and talk it out and see what needs working on.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

Why assume the guilty party is a woman?
If your wife cheated on you, then address the fact.

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Quimliqer · 70-79, M

@bushi2020 That should be a red flag for you!! Leopards don’t change their spots!!!

bushi2020 · 36-40, M

@Quimliqer Lol, but people arent Leopards I do get what you mean but I do believe people can change if given the chance to change but if they dont take the chance then ya I agree with you about that.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

@bushi2020 You’re right, a person can change their behaviours.

calicuz · 51-55, M

If you want her to stop, and she won't stop or change, then you are only teaching her that cheating is ok. It might be time you walked away from this relationship, and actually it's not a relationship if you are the only one still in love, and real love doesn't allow us to hurt ourselves by allowing cheating to continue.

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

If you can’t accept her on her terms, then move on. Why try to use her past as your issue for 5 years?

Fluffypanda · F

Cant tolerate cheaters, whatever the situation is.

bijouxbroussard · F

It takes two to sustain a relationship, and trust (imho) is the most important thing. When people are able to pick up and keep going after an infidelity it’s generally because they’ve found a possibility of rebuilding that trust. A lot of times that even takes counseling. So in a situation where the person who cheated isn’t even willing to answer questions, they’re clearly not concerned about regaining their partner’s trust. If the why isn’t discussed, what’s to stop it from happening again ? That’s a doomed relationship.

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