Loving a cheater

I think that a lot o people have been in relationships and their partner cheated sometimes they break up sometimes they forgive. What bothers me the most is if your partner cheats and thinks its ok this partner will tell you that you are the love they always wanted but when you try to work it out with them they will say they are sorry but they do not feel any need to give a explanation as to why they cheated.

They think sorry is enough and they want to prove that they are a good Christian woman now and I should accept this as now she could make me very happy..

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bijouxbroussard · F

It takes two to sustain a relationship, and trust (imho) is the most important thing. When people are able to pick up and keep going after an infidelity it’s generally because they’ve found a possibility of rebuilding that trust. A lot of times that even takes counseling. So in a situation where the person who cheated isn’t even willing to answer questions, they’re clearly not concerned about regaining their partner’s trust. If the why isn’t discussed, what’s to stop it from happening again ? That’s a doomed relationship.