Loving a cheater

I think that a lot o people have been in relationships and their partner cheated sometimes they break up sometimes they forgive. What bothers me the most is if your partner cheats and thinks its ok this partner will tell you that you are the love they always wanted but when you try to work it out with them they will say they are sorry but they do not feel any need to give a explanation as to why they cheated.

They think sorry is enough and they want to prove that they are a good Christian woman now and I should accept this as now she could make me very happy..

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Quimliqer · 70-79, M

Why assume the guilty party is a woman?
If your wife cheated on you, then address the fact.

bushi2020 · 36-40, M

@Quimliqer LOL, shes not my wife I have never been married. Typically when someone apologizes for something the issue has to be discussed and shes not doing that she feels that shes a reformed Christian woman and she can make me happy so that means I need to forgive her now.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

@bushi2020 You’re referring to a lady friend?

bushi2020 · 36-40, M

@Quimliqer To be honest I don't know what she is.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

@bushi2020 Walk away.

bushi2020 · 36-40, M

@Quimliqer Why walk away? She finally told me some truth the issue I have with it is it took her over 5 years to tell me SOME of the truth.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

@bushi2020 If she’s not the one that gives you the warm fuzzies, then is she just a friend?

bushi2020 · 36-40, M

@Quimliqer She does give me those feelings but she uses the feelings to manipulate me.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

@bushi2020 That should be a red flag for you!! Leopards don’t change their spots!!!

bushi2020 · 36-40, M

@Quimliqer Lol, but people arent Leopards I do get what you mean but I do believe people can change if given the chance to change but if they dont take the chance then ya I agree with you about that.

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

@bushi2020 You’re right, a person can change their behaviours.