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Why do i always fall for someone who’s already taken?

There is a lot of single but why do i not fall for them? Why is it always to the wrong person who’s already taken? I hate this. This really feel sucks. I’ll be a bad person if i follow my heart 😭
BlueVeins · 22-25
It's hard to find single people out there.
helenS · 36-40, F
When I was much younger, there was this girl who always wanted my lovers, only to drop them a couple of days after she got them. 🙄
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
@helenS heh, at some point it's almost like "go humor her for a bit so we can get past this"
Fear of commitment. There’s safety in knowing the other person is unavailable
TheOrionbeltseeker · 36-40, M
@Cowboybob BEST ANSWER AWARD recommendations @ihavenoone
SW-User
@Cowboybob True
TheOrionbeltseeker · 36-40, M
I know 100% people around me that are taken. ,All the non - taken are non - taken for a reason. That reason draws you more closer to taken than non taken.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@TheOrionbeltseeker thats true
Northwest · M
You should have a conversation with a therapist, so you can understand why you choose to go after people who are already in a relationship.
teachmetiger210503 · 36-40, M
And if you don't follow your heart you have regrets on the other side Of the coin . Maybe it's just the wrong girl she fooling around with.
level40two · 56-60, M
I can really relate to this post. Can I share my experience with you in private?
level40two · 56-60, M
@helenS I messed up somehow. That was supposed to be a response to a different post.
helenS · 36-40, F
@level40two Ah, I get that! Happens to me all the time! Even in private messages 😏
level40two · 56-60, M
@helenS lol🤣.
ArtieKat · M
Been there, done that.... got loadsa t-shirts lol. We can't choose who we're attracted to - I ascribe a lot of it to pheremones. We may be sophisticated animals but we are still animals
Sounds like you like the "bad boy" sort. Or they give you more attention then normal guys because they love the chance?
BigImo · 22-25, F
Just cos they're in a relationship doesn't mean they're off limits. If anything it makes it more fun
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
I often find the taken ones are more physically attractive.
teachmetiger210503 · 36-40, M
@PaleandPolluted law
of attraction.
Well because the best people are usually already taken haha.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F

My therapist had me read this about attachment styles.
Bri89 · 31-35, M
We always want what we can't have. I do that all the time.
Morrowind · 26-30, M
A lot of ppl are taken
I know how it feels though
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
Yeah I often have that problem too
You aren't the only one
Babaloo64 · 41-45, M
Luck factor is missing
Mudkip · 31-35, M
Uff that sucks
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
If their taken that means someone else has shown they are maybe worth investing in. Like how you need a credit history to get credit. Or how is easier to find new employment if you have a job than it is if you don't. 😏

I don't know if you have ever considered it, but ethical non-monogamy is out there. Just need to fall for taken people who are with partners willing to share.

 
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