Why do i always fall for someone who’s already taken?

When I was much younger, there was this girl who always wanted [u]my[/u] lovers, only to drop them a couple of days after she got them. 🙄

It's hard to find single people out there.

Fear of commitment. There’s safety in knowing the other person is unavailable

I know 100% people around me that are taken. ,All the non - taken are non - taken for a reason. That reason draws you more closer to taken than non taken.

You should have a conversation with a therapist, so you can understand why you [i]choose[/i] to go after people who are already in a relationship.

And if you don't follow your heart you have regrets on the other side Of the coin . Maybe it's just the wrong girl she fooling around with.

Been there, done that.... got loadsa t-shirts lol. We can't choose who we're attracted to - I ascribe a lot of it to pheremones. We may be sophisticated animals but we are still animals

I can really relate to this post. Can I share my experience with you in private?

Sounds like you like the "bad boy" sort. Or they give you more attention then normal guys because they love the chance?

Just cos they're in a relationship doesn't mean they're off limits. If anything it makes it more fun

I often find the taken ones are more physically attractive.

Well because the best people are usually already taken haha.

We always want what we can't have. I do that all the time.

My therapist had me read this about attachment styles.

A lot of ppl are taken
I know how it feels though

Yeah I often have that problem too

Luck factor is missing

Uff that sucks

If their taken that means someone else has shown they are maybe worth investing in. Like how you need a credit history to get credit. Or how is easier to find new employment if you have a job than it is if you don't. 😏

I don't know if you have ever considered it, but ethical non-monogamy is out there. Just need to fall for taken people who are with partners willing to share.