Cuddle companion

@bijouxbroussard

There aren't many phrases sadder than abandoned babies 😢

@Heartlander napiring?

@RedBaron

"inspiring"

Damn! who has been moving the key-caps on my keyboard?

@twiigss

https://cuddlecompanions.org/

@Heartlander I'll check this out when I get home, thank you a bunch for that!

@FoxyQueen politics in this country are out of hand. Was never like this 10+ years ago. People could vote who they wanted to and still be friends. Now, it's all about picking sides and I don't like that.

I'm my mind, I look at things that are important to me when voting. My vote don't matter anyway. I'm just one person. I understand what you are saying, I guess I never see, who else am I affecting based on my vote? I only see, these issues a, b and c are important to me, so this is who I'm voting for.

Which is why I don't care for politics. It destroys relationships and people. I'm just one person on this planet trying to be a good person and that's it.

@twiigss I understand that, but each vote does count and we shouldn't be voting for what is best for us, but as society as a whole. That means considering how policies and laws can affect people beyond ourselves. That's part of being in a society and community. We vote, not for our individual benefit, but the benefit of all it can affect.

Politics was never like this till social media. Once it became apparent that opinions could be formulated and distributed, it became far more rank and poisonous.

I don't care about politics either, but I do care about how it affects others and how it is used to keep others down who don't deserve it. So, as I said, how a person votes is a direct view on how I may be treated in a relationship. If a voter is only voting for their own benefit and not the benefit of all, why would they be any different in a relationship? Their voting says they vote for their own benefit only. How are they in a relationship where they have to corroborate and find mutual ground?

@FoxyQueen Good Point.

@FoxyQueen It worked out quite well for over two years.

@QCDog2659 What made you decide to stop?

@FoxyQueen She vanished off the face of the Earth.

Really

@GeniUs True, but how does that differ from a therapist? You pay a therapist to talk about things you should have friends to express to? It just happens that a therapist has training. So does a professional cuddler.

@FoxyQueen I can see there might be a market but limited, it just seems fraught with problems.

@OlderSometimesWiser It really is. I mean, I know I would have to install a silent alarm system and perhaps a guard. And it's a shame that has to be a part of the business plan.

@FoxyQueen It IS necessary self-care.

@FoxyQueen I would feel like it's an admission that I am to repellant to find someone who would want to cuddle because THEY want to. No shame if someone else wants to use those services, I just can't bring myself to for that reason.

@BlueVeins Ironically, having cuddle sessions can improve your confidence and self impressions.

@JackHoff Oh of course! It would be in the contract they have to sign. That doesn't stop the assumption though.

@FoxyQueen I know.

@FoxyQueen I once accompanied my very old dad to physical therapy. Also there for therapy was another gentlemen who apparent hadn't been able to raise himself from his wheelchair for quite a while.

With the encouragement of the therapist and a little handholding he did it. He stood up straight on his own, no holding on to anything or anyone. It was such a a feat, an accomplishment that he started yelin "THANK YOU" over and over. Then he yelled "NOW CAN I F... YOU?'

@FoxyQueen also you should be comfortable working with all manner of men and not turning away the fugly ones

@FoxyQueen because the reason they likely to be desperate is because they have been rejected a lot and can't get a partner