I drive myself crazy wondering why

@PoetryNEmotion Of course you can say whatever you please; but you can also accept that your opinion may be contested. Especially when it is a repeated, outspoken condemnation of a wife that you do not know.

@WalterF What is your interest in this? Lack of intimacy is a serious topic. Either discuss it or leave. You either have lived it or not. Refusers are mostly the ones at fault. The ones who stay unhappily are staying out of fear and/ or obligation. Neither is positive. I have both lived it and researched this extensively. So my thoughts do matter. Prrhaps you are a refuser? Who knows? So talk or leave. You are like someone who comes to a pool dressed to swim and stands there staring.

@PoetryNEmotion Rude, aren't you. I won't discuss further with you.

@Sevendays I'm truly not sure if she knows why. If she does, she is not willing to say.

@Freetime it isn't your fault.

@smileylovesgaming I take commitments seriously.

@travelguy01 No, she's probably asexual.

@allygator18 I see. I suppose I would call that influence rather than responsibility, but either way it's a good thing to keep in mind. Thanks.