LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
I'm pretty damn close to losing mine as well, I'm sure. I've heard you never fully get over it, you just carry on.
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swirlie ·
@LordShadowfire
You become emotionally sidelined, somewhat like having a mental block to the forward progression of your own life, as if you've become involuntarily parked on a railway siding as you watch life move past you on the mainline without you being able to engage with any of it.
You become emotionally sidelined, somewhat like having a mental block to the forward progression of your own life, as if you've become involuntarily parked on a railway siding as you watch life move past you on the mainline without you being able to engage with any of it.
AlittleBitGenX · 46-50, F
@swirlie I completely feel that right now. Everything moving by and around me is fuzzy and I don’t feel real
swirlie ·
@AlittleBitGenX
I think the only thing that helped me to snap out of it after a very long period of time was one day out of the blue, some very subtle things began happening around me which made me acutely aware in those moments that the deceased person's spirit was trying to interact with me.. or communicate with me, for no other reason than to let me know that they were still 'present' and that we don't actually go anywhere when we appear to die.
A strong message I received in the night subsequent to that experience was... "WE are not our body and though the body is eventually laid aside, our soul is eternal and we cannot die".
I think the only thing that helped me to snap out of it after a very long period of time was one day out of the blue, some very subtle things began happening around me which made me acutely aware in those moments that the deceased person's spirit was trying to interact with me.. or communicate with me, for no other reason than to let me know that they were still 'present' and that we don't actually go anywhere when we appear to die.
A strong message I received in the night subsequent to that experience was... "WE are not our body and though the body is eventually laid aside, our soul is eternal and we cannot die".
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
I miss my dad too. For all our arguments he was very dear to me. The last words I said to him were.
Dad I don’t want you to go.
Dad I don’t want you to go.
Strictdad1965 · 56-60, MVIP
I’m so sorry you lost your dad I take care of my dad he has early stages of dementia
exexec · 70-79, C
I'm sorry you lost your Dad. I'm sure he treasured your love.
Callaghen · 61-69, M
so sorry for your loss , I've been there
Mk8155 · M
I’m very sorry for your loss, I know it’s tough
Sequoia51 · 70-79, M
Im saddened to read that. I am praying for you.
lostlissa · 36-40, F
Prayers for you. I'm so sorry.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I lost my dad around the same age. Sorry to hear. But it gets better.
Iwillwait · M
I am so sorry for your loss.
YoMomma · 41-45
Sorry.. good dads are a rare thing anymore.. sorry for your loss..
QCDog2659 · 61-69, M
I am sorry
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
I’m so sorry 🫂
dragonfly46 · F
My condolences.
SJones48 · 41-45, M
We’re so sorry for your loss
chuck7882 · 61-69, M
Please accept my deepest condolences.
romell · 51-55, M
Condolences on your loss parents are like those big trees which protect us give us fruits but never ask anything from us
So sorry for your loss
EndlessHorizon · 46-50, M
Very sorry for your loss.
Themistocles38 · 36-40, M
So sorry for your loss.
bijouxbroussard · F
Sincerest condolences. 🥺
Thrust · 56-60, M
🙏