Breakup situation

Just my experience

One twenty and the other thirty years later hunted me down and called me.
Both caught me by surprise and it was nice hearing from them But, then I remembered why I broke it off with both.

Goes without saying never again..,


As far as putting your heartbreak aside, give it time you'll heal.

Don’t overthink it....it happened 8 months ago, just move on. You’ll never forget her, but you need to move on with your life.
If you break up, theirs a reason why....just know that and move ahead with your own life.

Just accept the fact for whatever reason it didn't work out and wasn't meant to be. There is someone else out there for you but you can't see what's ahead of you until you leave the past behind you. Trust me i know it's easier said than done but you have to for your own health and well-being.

Keep busy. Hobbies. Exercise. Think why it did not work out. Learn from that. Live your life. You wanted to marry her. Takes time to move on. When you find yourself thinking about her, do domething to distract yourself. Say that was the past. I am moving on to better.

If you broke up once it's a pretty safe bet you'd break up again. Relationships don't have to be hard. Good ones are easy. And they fall in our laps. Get excited about the future dude. That's where it's at. Good luck.

There comes a time when the remembering becomes an obsession ... kind of like poking at a sore tooth...

It's time to busy yourself with other things, and don't leave so much time for yesterday.

Tomorrow is waiting.

Time brother. Time is what it takes.
Delete her pictures, get off social media for a bit, and unless y'all have kids don't reach out.

Put her behind you and someone nice

As if I'd ever follow this advise...but it's really a good idea to try....

Get busy around. Find some thing challenging to do in your life. Eventually you will move on.

Find another woman.

Fine a new girlfriend

Go get a new one

You never do.

I just BLOCK and keep going