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I Have a Broken Heart

My own daughter told me today that i could not visit........her husband is forbidding it, this it going way too far.
OlderDude · 61-69, M
Actually no,its not. What they are doing is an act of love in that if they have somehow contracted it, they do not want to pass it on to you. Your in the higher risk category and they would feel awful if it did happen that they gave it to you, and you subsequently got very sick from it.
Look at it not as an act of separation, but one of care.
Lusinda · F
@Silverwings live or die and you cant see it?


I'm out. This is too much. How old are you and you behaving like a child.

Ffs. Woman! Grow up.
Silverwings · 61-69, F
@Lusinda Sorry, that is the way i feel!
Lusinda · F
Silverwings · 61-69, F
My husband is dead, my parents are both dead, my only sister is dead, I have no one but my children, this is just too hard. Sorry if you do not agree!!
Silverwings · 61-69, F
@WatercolourWildFlowers She does not know, i kept it from her and shared it with you all.
@Silverwings I am hoping having the opportunity to speak it out, you will find a way to accept and remind yourself it is not forever, and that your daughter loves you more than anything. 🤗
Silverwings · 61-69, F
@WatercolourWildFlowers Thank you, and yes i know that is true, I doubt seriously that would have been her decision, her husband is being over protective i feel, although many do not agree. I just have to suck it up buttercup, that is her favorite saying.
Happymedium · 51-55, F
🤗I'm sorry.
This sucks.

But it's for the best right now.

😔currently, I'm not visiting my parents ....but we do speak often.


💞try to stay positive about it

🤞this passes sooner than expected
Silverwings · 61-69, F
@Happymedium it's just too hard.
Happymedium · 51-55, F
@Silverwings
🥺I really do understand.

I have my parents....
And I also have young adult children of own.

And I just want everyone to be safe and healthy. The thought of any of us contacting this is frightening...let alone, contacting it and passing it to another family member.💔

It's hard.... these are unusual times right now.


🤗
Silverwings · 61-69, F
@Happymedium For sure!!
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
So sorry.My mom went out to her brothers,she normally lives with me,for her own safety as she is at risk with her breathing and her heart.I drop mail to her and see her at the door.My husband is in the public.It may be for your safety she said that.Please don't be sad.You are a kind person I don't want you sad.
Silverwings · 61-69, F
Silverwings · 61-69, F
Your kind words are music to my soul!! 💖
Are they doing it because of the virus? If so, then they are trying to protect you and themselves. I don't get to see my grand children or my mother right now. It's just the way it is. So we find other ways to interact to get us through.
Silverwings · 61-69, F
@WatercolourWildFlowers It is hard for me to take, sorry.
@Silverwings of course it is, it's very difficult to be separated from family, there is nothing surer. But I am a healthcare worker and it's far safer this way, to ensure hospitals aren't overwhelmed by the amount of people sick at once. There needs to be measures in place to slow the rate of infection.
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Silverwings · 61-69, F
@IstillmissEP 😉 Yes Mam!! You are a lady right?
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Silverwings · 61-69, F
@IstillmissEP Oops and oops!!
gregloa · 61-69, M
That’s ridiculous. If my daughter said I couldn’t come see my grandkids I’d disown her. She wouldn’t but if she did if this ever blows over first time she wanted Something or a baby sitter. No way.
Silverwings · 61-69, F
@gregloa I am glad finally someone sees it my way.
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I agree. This could go on for a year. My kids need social interaction and some kind of normalcy. I don't want to go that long without seeing family, especially as we're all locked in
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Silverwings · 61-69, F
@geoam1 This is ridiculous.
Lusinda · F
According to the new guidelines. Its totally understandable
Silverwings · 61-69, F
@Lusinda NOt to me its not. Guidelines or no we are blood.
Lusinda · F
@Silverwings doesnt matter. You in a risk age group.
Your daughter could be a carrier and you could get it

Millions are doing it. You not the only one.

 
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