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OluwoleFemiJacob · 26-30, M
Yeah I think that's very possible
It has never happened to me but I think it's very possible to fall in love with someone virtually but you just need to be certain the person is really who they say they are

PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
I think that's impossible. You can feel lust or friendship but love? No, physical touch and, sight and smell are all part of that.
Not sure about deeply but I was pretty far gone by the time I met my husband in person. At which point it sealed the deal. 🙂
@OlderSometimesWiser That’s really cool.
Blondily · F
No
How can you form a strong bond w/o never being with them in person doing things together, getting to know their habits, body language, plus how they react if something happens, do they anger easily over nothing or are they a calm centered person. Online chat is only a small part of a person's personailty. Id have to see more in person to fall in love.
Yes and no.
Idk about that "never seen" part. They weren't anonymous. 🤷🏾

it is entirely possible to enjoy and greatly care for a person on a deep emotional level while still understanding that it is going to stay entirely where it is. At least for me it has worked out this way. I could go on but I'll leave it at that.
TransientTinkerer · 41-45, M
Yes, until I met them and was confronted by all those red flags that are easily ignored in an online relationship and get up in your face like some NFL linebackers. It tends to sputter out quickly from there.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Ananke · 31-35, F
I developed feelings for someone online one time. But it didn't go anywhere. Not that I particularly wanted it to go anywhere because I was already happy in a relationship at the time.
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
I had thought so a time or two - but it seems it was all a game. It’s honestly not smart to get too far in sight unseen or without a physical courtship.
faery · F
Never seen as in person? Yeah, I was in deep before we actually met up, and once we did it led to an 8 year relationship
Horok · 31-35, M
Yes.

This happened after years of friendship.
There was a ton of video calls.
@Horok This. i've had people i have eventually gotten so close to that we ate, slept, laughed and cried on cam and calls together and that's saying a lot bc i'm crazy hard to get close to. Why people think it's all some weird silent "nothing" for everyone i will never know. i've gotten to know people's entire families and had our camera's on auto answer even depending on how close. even people who were or are just friends. Romantic things go a bit deeper, but if someone won't at LEAST let you hear their voice, it's not worth it.
Bleak · 36-40, F
I know some people who claim this.

You can call it infatuation but not love.
SleepingWithGhosts · 46-50, M
I did once, and then it became an in-person love.
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
Like God the Almighty?
Fertilization · 36-40, F
@YMITheWayIM Good one👏👏
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
@Fertilization
Ferric67 · M
Oddly, the only person who I know of that is willing to consider getting married to me was someone from EP…who I have never actually met.

Thing is, I’m not interested in ever being married or having children for that matter.
meggie · F
No. There used to be a woman on here that did a couple of times and kept sending them money. It ended very sadly both times, despite her never even meeting them.
stayfickle · 26-30, F
Real love? No. I don’t think so.

Lust? Friendship? Interest? Infatuation? Can be.

But then anything is possible!
No, some guys are like,
"If only, location was different"
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@HoLeeFuk Not surprising
seems like it should be higher
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ArishMell · 70-79, M
Definitely not.

I don't believe it would lbe sincere even if possible.
WhiteSapphire · 18-21, F
I’d seen them but never met and yes I absolutely did
TAReturns · M
I have but of course I got my heart broken as a result 😢
Alyosha · 36-40, M
Yes. Multiple times.
SW-User
Yes and no
SW-User
Adstar · 56-60, M
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Ferric67 · M
@FreeLittleBird awesome movie
No, but I once interacted with someone on EP that I began liking to the point that I might’ve been willing to meet him. It didn’t happen, however.
DDonde · 36-40, M
Never in person? Yes. But not without having seen them, heard them. That is, not just text.
Hard to fall in love with a lotta text

 
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