Did you ever get over your first true love?

I did. It was my first wife, who was with me for almost twenty years. We have kids together, and she's a great mom, but she's nothing more than a sorta friend now. I guess you could say we're cool with each other, but I wouldn't touch her like that anymore with a ten-foot pole.

It took years. The nightmares had to subside. I had to stop being so angry. I had to come to realize that she had been special to me and there was nothing I could do to change that, she just hadn't been who I thought she was.

Forget first love, I can't get over my last date.


Also I beleive, unless you decides to love and die single after the first love , you should move on.

What is true love and what is not true love?

Time solves a lot of issues. But also helps if you find new love which stays.

I still think of her every so often, and it's been over 55 years since I last saw her.

I did, yes. They key is finding someone else to love.

No, I never did. 40 years ago now.
I wonder whether the universe will level things up at some point, because I was so in love with her.

Not entirely no. I think of her all the time

I married her, so I haven't gotten over her.

I've never been in love

Perhaps infatuated
But not in love