Wow! Obviously she trusts you and this is very difficult since her husband is also a close friend of yours since high school. Has she discussed it with her husband already, or is it a secret?

One thing about being cheated on. Many times you are the last one to find out. Its heart wrenching to find out, but then you wonder why no one else who knew, didn't tell you. Although sometimes people may share that and end up with a ruptured friendship. it is a very tough position to be in.

Since you've been cheated on, would you have wanted someone to tell you?

Not your place to say anything BUT it is your place to call your friend and let her know you won’t say anything but she put you in a REALLY bad situation and you are just letting her know this don’t breech the trust but DEFINITELY let her know the position she put you in THEN ask what’s the time line for the divorce and until then step back and stay out of it

Good Luck

Always the one that is being cheated on is the last to know. I feel sorry for you cuz your friend put you in a hell of a predicament. You could end up loosing both of them as friends. But still she is the one who is the cheater. I would tell him.

They need to sort it out on their own

I would not get myself involved because you stand a strong chance of having both of them resent you in the end....and you might get blamed for it, on top of it
Other people and their drama

Why hasn't she told her husband? You should tell her that she put her in a tough spot, given that her husband is your friend, and she should either tell him or you will.

What's her timeline on coming out with it herself? If she's planning to come clean herself with the divorce discussion then I would sit on it for a bit. If she has no intention of actually doing this for months or years then it may be worth saying something.

Definitely give her a chance to speak first. But tell her she doesn't have forever to do so.

Do NOT get involved. That’s their problem. Plus, she told you as a friend. Telling would be a breach of her trust.

Remain neutral.

I definitely wouldn't meddle in but I guess I'd start avoiding both of them until they resolve their situation.

I believe the only thing that makes her hesitate to tell her husband is that she loves her new guy but isn’t sure if her new guy feels the same or just enjoy having sex with her. Her new guy is also married.

Your friend will probably take your other friend to the cleaners.Even though she's the one at fault

Keep your mouth shut. Better he hears it from her than someone else. No one ever really knows what goes on in someone elses relationship until it happens, so don't beat yourself up for not knowing.

You need to encourage her to break off the side.Relationship and never tell her husbandShe made a commitment to her husband and family till death.Do them part?Her word means nothing.This means nobody including you should trust her.Think about itIf you're willing to lie to the one that you swore you would always be by their side.You'll lie to anybody

You can discuss things with her, but don't tell her husband.

Think and pray about it before you make the call, then let your heart guide you.💜

Step back as you lose both as friends if you enter in, is the usual result.

Your friend put you in a bad spot.

Aren’t you the woman who was cheated on by your husband and your best friend? Have you stayed friends with her or have you got a fantasy about everyone cheating in your life.

Remain silent!!

I would say something, but discreetly and indirectly.

Her life, her drama.
Stay out of it or you might lose a friend.

Don’t get involved

no, do not say anything--that is between them

Plausible deniability is my advice

Buy a cheap burner phone and tell him over a text message

Don’t get involved.

Run like hell

Stay silent