What would you do?

My friend and I went out for dinner last night to catch up on life. It has been awhile since we got together. Last night, she shared with me that she wants to divorce her husband. I was shocked because I thought her and her husband marriage is going fine. Her reason is that she is in love with another man and she has been seeing him for months. I asked her has she slept with him and she said yes. Her husband is also a close friend of mine since high school.

Should I say something or keep my mouth?

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Northwest · M

Why hasn't she told her husband? You should tell her that she put her in a tough spot, given that her husband is your friend, and she should either tell him or you will.

Elfviline · 26-30, F

@Northwest I think she isn’t sure if the other guy loves her or just wants sex. From what she told me, he is also married.

Northwest · M

@Elfviline Why would she think she can build a loving, stable relationship with a guy who's cheating on his wife, especially when she's cheating on her husband herself.

Both of them are habitual cheaters, who will always see greener grass on the other side.

It really does not matter whether you tell your friend (the husband), the relationship is doomed to fail, so you might as well tell him.