How would you know if you fall out of love?

You stop thinking about them, when you are with them, you don’t want to be around them anymore.
You think about a life without them more and more.

It happened to me 😌 you don’t feel happy around them anymore.

I knew I was no longer in love.
I just loved him.
The reason being I started thinking about what our life would look like 5 years down the line given his previous years behaviour.
And compared it to where it is today.
I realised that the only person keeping this relationship alive was me.
I made the effort to be available and emotionally available to him.
But what did I get from this?
So i had to check why I loved this person.
It's not about nice presents and going to fancy restaurants. It's about the care I receive on a day to day basis. And it's was next to none.
The love I gave was the love I was missing for me.
And I realised that if I turned that on myself I would have all I needed. And unfortunately there was none left for him.
He had enough good years of my love.

You don't want to spend time with them because doing so doesn't provide the feeling it once did

I think you just know

🙂 funnily enough..I just now wrote on a post . That true love never goes away or dies.

If after a while someone finds their feelings toward love interest has changed.
Then there was never really any love ..there was just ' like ' .. and the degree of that " Like" shifted.

Love.... if you can explain it then you haven't experienced it..... so if you can analyse your feelings and get an answer..... you probably aren't in love...

I think it’s when you no longer care if they are happy or sad anymore. They could be having the worst day of their lives and you just go “meh!”

It's simple to know
When the other person is not a priority and the other way around is, you can't do nothing right ❤️

I’ve only been in love twice. And I never really fell out. My husband died, but the pain has finally been replaced with warm memories. With the second, things didn’t work out, but my feelings about him are still affectionate.

I guess when you feel peace and happiness when they aren't around

With the time. Time passes away quickly.

When it starts to feel dishonest to be around them

You don't crave physical intimacy with them

You come home to an empty house & no car in the garage