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Why are some people afraid of love?

I mean if that person really really likes you, and you may like that person back, go for it. If you don’t let someone in your heart, you might miss out on a great person!! You gotta trust someone sometimes. I mean you can’t trust everyone. Stop being afraid of love. Get out of your comfort zone for crying out loud!
You gotta be uncomfortable sometimes.
Some people have just been hurt too badly. Takes time and really all you can do is be understanding
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@Bexsy I understand that
@Bexsy If it were my post, I would give you Best Answer. 👍
Uncomfortable is one thing, trusting intuition is another. I tried that shit over and over and it’s fine to be brave and try new things, but you can’t just let everyone in holy shit. People will wreck you 😆
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@BrokenAbyss that’s true
That's all true for dating, but moving in together has a lot of practical consequences. After that point it's not as easy to go different ways if things don't work out.
People are afraid to love because they've been hurt by it.
Taking the chance to love is [i]also[/i] taking the chance to get hurt again.
People don't want to do that.
Iwantyourhotwife · 22-25
Maybe they worry because all they know is love

And if they give themselves, they give themselves wholeheartedly. And they fear that they may be loving someone who doesn't have love in their heart back .-.
Whenever I felt in love with some person they kicked me out of their life. Its like I was something to them but they don't want my love.
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
I'm not afraid.
I'm waiting for her to say that she loves me and thinks about me all day and night, and she wants me to be hers, forever.
Fluffybull · F
Childhood abuse and trauma, domestic abuse, unpleasant relationship experiences.
AstroZombie · 36-40, M
I'm not afraid. I'm just unwanted xD
caccoon · 36-40
Because it can be so painful
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I want love but I don’t think that I am worthy of it.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@justanotherone you flatter me 💖
justanotherone · 51-55, M
@iamonfire696 is it working?
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@justanotherone well yah 🤭
SW-User
It may be easier said than done for many.
It takes a lot out of a person when it comes to trying again after things not working. It's not just about love, but putting yourself out there and showing who you really are and how you really are.
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M

 
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