Do you ever feel like people in general are less forgiving with you than you are with them?

I feel like I always let things go. Like I don’t care if you’re hair is greasy sometimes, or you got pimples, or you’re a bit sweaty today…
But God forbid anyone should let me be human in peace.

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GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M

All the time.

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

I think most people do judge other people more harshly than they do themselves andthey give themselves permission for the things they do, but they don't always like it when other people do it.
I honestly, don't think many of them see that they do this they really feel they are fair and balanced.

Vengabus · 36-40

@Justmeraeagain Idk…I wish people were more socially forgiving…in lots of ways. Standards are hard to keep up with

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@Vengabus I do not know how to change that.
I do know I feel better when I take care of myself the best I can.
I realize some people in are in situations that make things difficult.
And we should be kind to people despite appearances.

Magenta · F

Yes.

But God forbid anyone should let me be human in peace.

Exactly!

Thevy29 · 41-45, M

🙋‍♂

HellsBelle · F

example?

Vengabus · 36-40

@HellsBelle just things that could be ignored but get pointed out as if they want you to feel self conscious. Sometimes it feels like people expect women to be overly obsessed with their appearance, and when they’re not they get uncomfortable or confused…
Idk tho

Jexie · 26-30, F

I'm generally a forgiving person, but it does seem true sometimes, not all the time

ImperialAerosolKidFromEP · 51-55, M

I was going to say quite the opposite, but then I saw the body. I don't feel I need to forgive greasy hair or pimples 🤔

candycane · 36-40, F

it dont botther me as well,when you live homeless for a while,you see things very very different🙂

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