Do you get self conscious if someone...

Happens to *check you out*?

This happened a few days ago and today. A guy looked at me and kept looking back at me , and while I feel a rush of excitement, I feel so self conscious too. I looked away, both times, When what I really wanted to do was smile. I guess it's my self esteem, which is low. I'll think, 'You're not looking at much buddy' I really wish I could ever feel ok about myself. Do you ever experience that?

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JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M

You should have smiled at the very least. Maybe a quick once over with your eyes too. Return the favor

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@JohnnyNoirWhile he was looking at me a couple times, He wasn't smiling at me..but I did feel flattered. I have occasionally smiled if a man seems interested, but most times I get so uptight. Because they think they see a regular person, and they don't know I'm far from that😟

JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M

@Coralmist Once again, he may be feeling the same. Regular is like normal to me, there's no such thing. We are what we are