I don’t know why but I feel like a switch was flipped for me recently

One of the great things about getting older, caring less! One of the bad things about getting older, sagging appendages!

Yes. That switch was flipped for me when I got divorced. My life was cleansed of an abuser. And then in 2011, my mother passed away, who was a manipulator and an abuser, and the relief was so tremendous I thought I might begin to float...seriously! Alone and free is awesome! However, don't forget that you can still make NEW friends...people who are GOOD, and good FOR you!

Good for you!
I feel the same way. Had to get away from toxic family members and fake friends and doing what makes me feel happy.😌

Sounds like freedom. I feel that more and more as well.

It comes with age i believe cause the older i get the more i just dont give a fuck about anything

Welcome to the- I could care less what you think- club.
It's a great club.

It's very freeing. I got like this with my family bc of all their nonsense and drama. Now I just need to care less about how I come across when it comes to putting myself out there and asking people out etc. I've done it a couple times last year and survived but ugh

I have no more irl friends...one drifted away themselves but the other few I just stopped contacting..I was tired of being walked over, or like my feelings didn't matter. I'm fine without them. I do miss going out though..but I agree fully with your thoughts..🪻

It's so liberating, isn't it, Titch...

Yeah F em

Good on you 😊

That happened to me years ago

That is indeed a liberating place to be. The irony is, the friends who remain are much truer, because they’re accepting friendship on your terms.

It's a great feeling and an anchor off your back.

Life is hard. People make it harder.

Have you been drinking out of the toilet again, Bardy?