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What I think of you is largely in your own hands.

[b]All I know of you is what you present here. If I think well of you, it is because you have presented well. Equally, if I think badly of you, it is because you have presented yourself badly.[/b]
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
I mean I get your point about presentation being all we have to go on. But we also have to remember that there is a HUGE part of people's personalities that we DON'T see here.
Carey · F
@DearAmbellina2113 Yes, I agree, but the choice of what to present is entirely in the presenter's hands, and so the responsibility is theirs.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
That's true.
DiegoWolfe · 36-40
having big dick energy is completely different to being a massive dick!
Carey · F
@DiegoWolfe I am sure there are many who will be consoled by that thought.
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Virgo79 · 61-69, M
I usually don't worry about it
Carey · F
@Virgo79 That says a lot about you.
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
@Carey thank you🙂
Carey · F
@Virgo79 It's a pleasure.
smiler2012 · 56-60
{@carey] yes it is right it is who you present yourself too others and how they perceive what they are seeing on that they make a conclusion of you
SW-User
But you have to take into account perception, it's always always at play
Carey · F
@SW-User My perception of you depends entirely upon what I know of you.

What I know of you depends entirely upon the evidence you present.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
Guess I'm screwed then.
Carey · F
@Nitedoc Probably.
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Carey · F
@HootyTheNightOwl That speaks volumes.
DDonde · 31-35, M
Every person views others through their own lens. And one's own lens is NEVER without a particular bent or angle to it.
Carey · F
@DDonde That suggests to me that you would rather make other people responsible for their impressions of you than to accept responsibility yourself.
DDonde · 31-35, M
@Carey I'm saying don't forget your own perspective.
Carey · F
@DDonde I know what you are saying.

The only evidence I have on which to judge you is the evidence that you provide yourself. No matter what my perspective is, I have only what you tell me about yourself.
lumberjackslam · 41-45, M
just cause someone has skidmarks, a stained shirt, and an overbite doesn't mean they aren't human 😔
Carey · F
@lumberjackslam I would say that, unfortunately, it makes them only too human.
Then you must be entirely free of the prejudices so common among so many around here
Carey · F
@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP Prejudice has got nothing to do with it. You present the evidence, you are judged on it.

What you present is entirely in your own control.
@Carey I doubt it. If all someone knows about me is that I'm an [i]x[/i], and he already has a lot of preconceived notions about what [i]x[/i]'s are, he'll think he already knows a lot about me
Lilnonames · F
Hello Carey🤗 I got so many BLOCKED who answered you, hope your not talking to trolls and haters👍
Carey · F
@Lilnonames 🤗 So far, the validity of the original statement is reinforced by the responses.
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Carey · F
@SW-User Charming but silly.

 
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