I just needed to get this off my chest no offense

Gratitude comes to people in life different ways .
I heard a person say be grateful all the time for your life " That's how I'm sober and clean 20 years up to this day " .
The road has being a very difficult one .
A lot of pain but I didn't become grateful until I came out the other side of it . I still go through crap . You can't go through life and expect life to be plain sailing " I thought that way before " . It be lovely if it could but no one escapes life .
People with as what you said about the moaning and groaning that complain " no offense " but you wouldn't have a clue what there going through .
Maybe they need to moan and groan to get gratitude. I would being still moaning only for people that guided me to a higher power that I understand cause I tell you hear and now I'm nothing myself with out a God in my life .
That doesn't mean when you have God in your life that life goes plain sailing . It means that relying on myself that I'm not afraid no more cause I have someone that guides me and someone that guides me I wouldn't of getting there from the help off people that took time out for me through my moaning and groaning .
You never know what someone else is going through .
You touched on it yourself " with the happy faces to the outside world when there torn apart from the inside "
That's the dangerous part cause there the people that would want to end there life .
People are on different stages with there lives .
And do you know what you would put most of there's lives down too on a label for them " Grief "
Depending on how far there grieving and how much they can take that leads people into mental difficulties and that's where " the happy faces comes in " cause they don't want to be left vulnerable to hurt again .
A friend of mine said to me about life .
" You never get life a 100% right . The only time you get life a 100% is the day your in the grave "
That's why people need higher power .
That's the whole purpose of a higher power .
If your left to your own devices , most people and actually I met no one that It didn't happen too , most people are left with an empty soul , despair, hurting , anger , frustration, having trouble forming a true relationship . I can go on and on with this one but everyone suffers from all of these and if someone told me that they didn't at some stage in there lives I tell them there in the wrong place .
Everyone is a different stages

Not everyone is cut out the same, not everyone handle things the same as you do. People are emotional beings and emotions are not all black and white. It’s far more complex than that. And how’s it attention seeking when they end their lives? They wouldn’t be there to seek that attention, would they? Sometimes people are in such dark places, their happiness is just a cover up, they suffer in silence without giving you a hint.

May you or your loved ones never know true clinical depression, what it robs you of in terms of relationships and life events, the Herculean strength it can take to slap a smile on your face so as not to disturb others, years of making the rounds of psychiatrists and psychologists to no avail because there’s still so much that is unknown about the workings of the brain and perhaps worst of all, being blamed for having the disease, even after actually committing suicide, by people who think they understand depression when in reality they don’t have a clue.

So yes, it’s highly offensive being called ungrateful and an attention seeker looking to make drama. Imagine using those labels for a cancer patient who’s not showing outward signs of the disease because they look happy in photos and real life, unthinkable right?

People really need to educate themselves before offering such ignorant, hurtful opinions.

It’s good to keep in mind that there are many parts of your life you will never see.
It’s easy to see someone as entitled when you dont truly know them.

Yeah but at the same time some people have to put up a mask, and they’ll get a consequence if they don’t, people don’t usually kill the selves for attention, or to hurt their families, because then they won’t be there to gain the attention, it’s not like people can’t seem happy, but saying that people who look happy but end up killing themselves are attention-seekers or just trying to upset their families is a little unfair, no hate to you, I’m sorry you don’t have anyone, and I know it must be very hard for you to hang on and I’m glad you are.

Looks can be deceiving, so don't be fooled by the big smiles. When not in front of the camera, I'll bet those smiles turn upside down. Take care of yourself, and don't stress on trivial things that may, or may not be.

Those with mental illness are the most profound actors. Being happy, successful, loved, funny, pretty, rich, poor, sad, broke, alone, or angry have nothing to do with a person fighting to keep their heart and thoughts from rotting them from the inside out. Comparing lives and whose is better or worse is a completely different type of insanity.

Remember things aren't always what it seems. They might seem happy but are dying inside

I dont know tbh but yk not everyone is the same way inside and outside, like if you post a sad thing ppl maybe call you cringe or sum so yeah

I think the same thing I just don't say it out loud 💀