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i love him and hate him

we have talked for a week and he said he likes me but where moving too fast and we need to be friends and he hasn’t texted me in two days after he said that. i wish i meant more to him and i really love him but now i don’t think he likes me. idk what to do
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When two souls meet there is no guidelines for what is "too fast" or "too slow". If BOTH do not feel comfortable going for it.....at the same time.....that's a red flag. When you tried to give it your all and he said nope...too fast..............you had your answer. You are NOT on the same page.
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@MaBalzEsHari You really know little about life. Did someone burn you? I am speaking from the view point of a woman. Online and offline. I have found that there are far more men that take advantage of women then vice versa. I give solid advice. You can leave me be or deal with the consequences. Adults use words not emoticons. Now get lost.
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He has told you how he felt. You can understand it. You cannot love someone after a week. You need to listen to him. Grow up. Stop rushing things or you will lose his friendship. Is that what you want?
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
Honestly it sounds like you are a girl looking for Mr Right and unfortunately he is looking for right now. You are on two different pages this should show you how he actually perceives the relationship and what he hopes to achieve. If you are looking for quick sex and an occasional Netflix buddy then by all means proceed but it is obvious that he is not interested in you in anything further than the bedroom. If you want something far more meaningful my advice is to move on. Sorry I know it's not what you want to hear but I tend to tell the truth I don't sugarcoat life
idkyet · 18-21, F
@KingofBones1 i appreciate that but im 16 im not about to get pregnant
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
@idkyet advice still pertains and you can't really b**** about somebody being fake can you when you are not listing your real age. Sounds like some people need to get their s*** together no problem just be safe and do what's best for you
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
If you want the brutal truth you let him be, you give it way more time than two weeks, if he comes back and you become more than friends okay ,if you don't you move on
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
And I also know what this is like because I recently went through the situation I was looking for a solid friendship and a foundation to something bigger long-term and better and because I would not immediately jump nor immediately up any money I was now discarded. In the worst part was they tried to make me believe it was because of my own actions instead of their inadequacy. Don't buy into the b*******
SW-User
Who cares? Take your teenage angst somewhere esle. Yawn!

 
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