Just curious where you’re getting money from if you don’t have a job. You said originally your mother didn’t know you had money so I’d imagine it’s not coming from relatives which she probably would have already known about.
nyxnight · 16-17
@OlderSometimesWiser my father is working abroad and he would sometimes send me allowance and whenever he gives me allowance i always keep the money and saving it
in10RjFox · M
Don't just lend without a record. Ask them to give you in writing why they want to borrow and for what purpose and how do they plan to return it.
And say that you won't lend if you are not satisfied with the reason.
And also say that you have a future to worry about and you can't get to Future without savings.
Please wake up as the oldies are jealous of your money and just want to spend it on all their past dreams.
And say that you won't lend if you are not satisfied with the reason.
And also say that you have a future to worry about and you can't get to Future without savings.
Please wake up as the oldies are jealous of your money and just want to spend it on all their past dreams.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@in10RjFox yes good point just because they are her parents doesn’t mean she should not protect herself. She should get her own bank account which she had access to only. Because it seem they borrow money without asking or telling her. But it could be her age we do not know that .
in10RjFox · M
@updown2020 parents who don't earn start becoming like a child to their earning children, like how children demand money for some expenses or pocket money.
Parents being in a superior influential position just think that their children earn much beyond their needs and just want to take control of their excess. It's a beauty how they spin stories to draw money from children.
Parents being in a superior influential position just think that their children earn much beyond their needs and just want to take control of their excess. It's a beauty how they spin stories to draw money from children.
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nyxnight · 16-17
and i dont want to have another fights again between me and my mother abt it😭
Penny · 46-50, F
thats not right in my opinion that they are asking to borrow your money. they should be giving you money as your parents. do you ever find out what the money they need is for? if its something important i would lend it to them because they are in need though. in th efuture try to hide your money so they dont know you have it lol.
Pfuzylogic · M
Don’t consider it lending but giving it. If you wouldn’t give the money to her you shouldn’t lend it to her.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Well how old are you and do you have your own bank account?