should i let my parent borrow my money? pls answer me

should i let my parents borrow my money?

my mom is borrowing from me
sometimes she borrows almost all of my savings and she gives it back to me, but after borrowed from me it goes back to her because of she keeps asking me to lend her my money but sometimes if I don't lend my mom the money, she gets mad at me

Sometimes she doesnt ask my permission and, I don't want that kind of thing, she takes personal things without asking, we even had a fight because of that,
I know she will return the money I saved but I really don't want to borrow it

but yea until now she still doesn't understand that I don't want to lend it, so sometimes when she ask me again for the money im kinda forced to let her borrow it from me

now my aunt is borrowing
I told my aunt to borrow money from my mother
and then he replied "why? she has the money?"

it just makes me cry when I hear it, im so sick of their attitudes thats my money my father gave it me
and i dont my savings be touched

they will be angry if I don't lend it to them

i don't have a job im still a student yk
I don't know if I'm being selfish or spoiled with my parents pls tell me if I'm right or wrong in what I'm doing

I don't want to lend money
but I don't want to use my savings too😭
unless it's an emergency 😭

sorry my english grammar is killing me ik its little hard to read it but i hope u guys understand im bad at english

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in10RjFox · M

Don't just lend without a record. Ask them to give you in writing why they want to borrow and for what purpose and how do they plan to return it.

And say that you won't lend if you are not satisfied with the reason.

And also say that you have a future to worry about and you can't get to Future without savings.

Please wake up as the oldies are jealous of your money and just want to spend it on all their past dreams.

updown2020 · 61-69, M

@in10RjFox yes good point just because they are her parents doesn’t mean she should not protect herself. She should get her own bank account which she had access to only. Because it seem they borrow money without asking or telling her. But it could be her age we do not know that .

in10RjFox · M

@updown2020 parents who don't earn start becoming like a child to their earning children, like how children demand money for some expenses or pocket money.

Parents being in a superior influential position just think that their children earn much beyond their needs and just want to take control of their excess. It's a beauty how they spin stories to draw money from children.