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Jenny1234 ยท 51-55, F
If he likes you he isnโt mature enough for you. Move on
GuyWithOpinions ยท 31-35, M
I think hes shy and nervous around you. Maybe hes afraid to screw something up. Maybe you shpuld aproach him about it and give him a chance.
GabbySA8 ยท 18-21, F
Just date women, thank me later ๐ฎโ๐จ
iamnikki ยท 31-35, F
I'd think he doesn't actually like you.
1490wayb ยท 56-60, M
like myself his brain isnt wired for social interaction\conversation it sounds like. he may feel unworthy of you also. may be an extreme introvert.
Heavenlywarrior ยท 36-40, M
Be honest with him, see if he wants to hang out or whateverโฆ then youโll get your answer.
GeniUs ยท 56-60, M
This guy, do his friends call him Buffalo Bill or The Ripper or anything like that?
OlderSometimesWiser ยท F
Donโt his cousins know why?
Spoiledbrat ยท F
I'd move on.
ViciDraco ยท 36-40, M
Sounds like he's afraid of premature rejection. I'd mark him in the super shy column. With shy people it is not about how approachable you make yourself seem. There is this security barrier with all people and bringing that down even for someone who seems approachable is difficult and terrifying. If you like him you may need to take the initiative and bluntly ask him out. You can't hint at it by trying to coax him into conversations. He's second guessing every word he speaks right now.
And the attitudes of many of the other posters here reinforce that fear. A man being shy is immature or is not into you or is not worth the effort to pursue? To hell with that toxic extroversion noise. I've been that guy. I was also the most mature among my peers. I would have been over the moon for some girl I liked had the willingness to make the first move. Us shy guys play out so many scenarios in our head that we paralyze ourselves.
And the attitudes of many of the other posters here reinforce that fear. A man being shy is immature or is not into you or is not worth the effort to pursue? To hell with that toxic extroversion noise. I've been that guy. I was also the most mature among my peers. I would have been over the moon for some girl I liked had the willingness to make the first move. Us shy guys play out so many scenarios in our head that we paralyze ourselves.
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