I just don’t understand

Why am I so rude to everyone now, including family members? Like I absolutely hate myself for it. Is it because they treat me poorly sometimes? Why?

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SarahConnorT800 · F

Hey don’t beat ur self up for it ok, i used to be like that all the time. But u gotta apologize first and stop and think about how ur talking to someone. And its just how life works ok mistakes are made, they might treat u poorly but they still love u ok?

kgvent03 · 16-17, F

@SarahConnorT800 yeah but then I feel stupid for apologizing. and like they always yell at me when i make a little mistake and they should understand that i don’t like being yelled at.

SarahConnorT800 · F

@kgvent03 ok i understand just sit down and have a face to face heartfelt conversation with them explaining how u feel and how they feel, if that doesn’t work I’m always here to talk

TxOutlawTyler · M

@kgvent03 how old are you

AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F

Could be some subconscious thing. Perhaps you’re repressing your emotions or some sort of problem. Is something worrying you? Something made you mad? Sit for a moment and think about your life in the now.

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

Are you an angry person? Maybe that has something to do with it

It takes practice but try finding ways to speak kindly to people. It will make you happier inside too

England66 · 61-69, M

Sounds like your a young teenager, it will pass and try harder with every one with how you speak to them and sometimes just dont say anything for now

tiggerandariel13 · 41-45, MVIP

@kgvento3 My daughter is so rude she is rude to me her mother and my 2nd daughter gets the brunt of her older sister s rudeness

ABCDEF7 · M

Self introspection and regular Meditation will help.

Best Wishes :)

Mysterion619 · 26-30, M

I've been there. Probably just built up anger

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