idk what to do

Okay so, i really don't know how to explain this but, one day i was watching netflix until i got a text from my boyfriend (who hasnt texted me back in like a day because hes busy a lot) so i got excited and looked at his message and saw that it was actually his brother messaging me. So i asked him what happened to anthony (fake name to protect identity) and the brother said hes not doing good. And i had a panic attack and asked what happened, his brother responded saying anthony had a stroke and isnt doing well. I froze, i started crying and didnt know how to help. Mind you, they live in north carolina and i live in NY, so i didnt know what to do. On one hand, I want to text him to see if hes okay, but on the other hand, hes probably not going to read it or his brother his going to read it. If i dont text him hes going to think i dont care, but if i do his brother his going to answer. I really need help.

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Bjoern1997 · 26-30, M

His brother can bring the message over to him.
But with a stroke it'll take some time till ya bf will be fit enaugh to text you again I believe. So give him some time but also show him your there. I'm sure his brother won't mind reading your message to him 🙂

beermeplease · M

if it were my gf who had a stroke i'd pay her a visit....no matter where she lived

Mktonght · 61-69, M

For right now I would just communicate with the brother. D you have his phone number (brother) ifno get it and talk to the brother to see what exactly the level of stroke. I am a stroke recoveree and it took me a while before I was even able to respond to anyone.

entitylie · 18-21, F

@Mktonght The brother wont update me or even talk to me, and he told me he doesnt know how he is

Mktonght · 61-69, M

@entitylie @entitylie Damn! that is pretty rude.
Do you have any other family of his?

entitylie · 18-21, F

@Mktonght nope

Iwantyourhotwife · 22-25

I mean, just send a message. It doesn't make a difference unless it is a message that is private, right?

It doesn't hurt to ask how he is and to wait to hear from him to demonstrate your care. If his brother sees that, he can relay it for you too

fakable

what is netflix?

ViciDraco · 36-40, M

Honestly, this sounds like the guy is making up a story to ditch you. I can't say for 100% sure. Is the brother texting you from the BF's phone or from a different number?

entitylie · 18-21, F

@ViciDraco i know 100% its the brother, me and my bf talk on snap and ive seen my bfs brother before so i know its 100% real. My bf wont do anything like that to ditch me, hes very honest and wont lie about something so horrible

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