my mother's unhealed trauma

i hate my mom and love her at the same time. she forbid me to do something i like. whenever i ask her to go out or something she will always tell me no. then proceeds to tell everything about everything she went through when she was at my age. that even her, she couldn't do anything she want. that on her teenage years she was also treated by my grandmother like this. it's like she's passing her traumas on me. it's becoming heavey. i don't know what to do. i am mad and sad at the same time, because of her traumas.


lol excuse my graham, i am not that fluent in english lololol