hate myself.

there was a guy I actually gave my all to, his name is **** and when i first met him i had fallen inlove so quickly he showed me love no other guy has later on he breaks up w me cause hadn't lost feelings for his ex, he started saying i was a cheater to his friends and i dont understand why i cried sm n he was getting w other girls. i still had his sweater and stuff i got back w him like a week or two w him and again he leaves me for wanting to focus on himself n getting to relationships to quickly which he still does and i dont get why he couldn't focus on himself while he was w me but he was able to focus on himself w other girls i cry n cry n cry and im finally starting to lose feelings but he gets a new girl and he gives her the same exact sweater. ifhy a.

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Xalvadora · 18-21, F

It seems to me that he doesn't know self-control. He said he wanted to work on himself. If he wanted to do that, if I were you, I would help him. By literally breaking him away from the relationships he told you that he keeps getting too fast in to.
Yeah, what he's doing will make you lose all feelings for him real quick, but if he really wants to work on himself, don't he there as his girlfriend, but as a friend. Give him that push. The push to start working on himself. There's lots of articles online and YouTube videos that you can watch to see how to deal with this, let alone how to push a person to work on themselves, and be supportive about it.

Now if he's telling you that he wants to work on himself as an excuse to break up with you, forget about him and move on. Guys like him aren't worth anyone's time.

hellok1tty · 18-21, F

@Xalvadora i can't be there a a friend w him cause all he does is mix my feelings around + he has a gf .

Xalvadora · 18-21, F

@hellok1tty As someone who thinks that someone can change, they just need that push, you don't necessarily have to be his friend. You could just be there and knock him out of his relationship. You don't need to date him again.