Give it time… wait and make a decision in a more relaxed situation…

@PerfectIllusion

I've been in both camps , one 3 men who were serious in their intentions and another where I spent some of the time figuring out what was actually going on from his prospective.

Then , I simply had enough ( not of him per sae , but ) felt I had allotted the circumstance enough time)

On reflection, I was enjoying being Single.
All my life ,as a woman I had never really known autonomy.

Which for a woman is okay for a very short while.
However likely a bad choice long-term.

Then I woke up one day , reminiscent about my previous marriages , and decided I would very like that lifestyle again. Because it has always suited me to commited to one man only

Which ever way we choose to look at it . Exclusivity with a Man you love is a worthwhile & sensible choice for a couple to make.

At that time there were 3 men , who I loved & adored & truth is had the weather been right , I would have happily married anyone of them. Each of them were wonderful.

I checked in to see if or how they were fixed.

When it was clear they were to be left behind.

I chose to be absolutely intentional, with the next man ,I would fall for.

That was six months ago. I met a wonderful man . And l...ast we were married.☺️🎉💞🎊

The message is this .. If a man is intentional, you will not be guessing . Not for a single minute as to how deeply he feels about you.


Neither would you be concerned/ or worrying about texting him . Where there is love ..who on earth would worry?

If you are , whatever relationship - it is . you have together, thus far is nowhere near reality.

A ' reality which you would both need it to be .. so that it works .

Wishing you love 💝, light 🕯️ and emotional happiness 💕

Text him.
Do it.
Now.
😑

Been there, done that. Unless it's her birthday or we have kids, I tend to limit my communication. If your that nervous about it though, you could find a mutual friend to help out.

I understand this feeling well. I've been quite impulsive in the past. But as Soossie said, give it a little time. I wouldn't make some hard core decision like some say to.

Who knows, he may even text you? At least it's a possibility.

Don’t do it 😬

Call

When was the last time you texted him?

I have a new friend. Seems I always send a message at the wrong time for her. Today the sun is out and I sure would love to have her company, but I am waiting for her .... not a good feeling at all.

Need more context on this

Text him... No-one should be reluctant to message someone they l
Love , like , care for.

If they are ' reluctant then it's every bit " the game ," that it appears to be .

Down to earth folks sense these things 🤔

"Discretion (often) the better part of valor"

I think through first and weight the options. 🤗

Give me a brief rundown on whats going on, *Pulls up a chair* 🧙‍♂️

Don't

I don't really know. 🤷‍♂️

Hormones?

🤔...................Just flip a coin..........

Flip a coin

Sleep on it

No. Do not chase men. They should chase you.

If it’s a fucked up situation, do not text him!

If you are thinking it’s a fu#cked up situation then there is your answer!

if it is fucked up... back off

Which one ?

You must have heaps of guys texting you