To text him or not to text him?

@PerfectIllusion

I've been in both camps , one 3 men who were serious in their intentions and another where I spent some of the time figuring out what was actually going on from his prospective.

Then , I simply had enough ( not of him per sae , but ) felt I had allotted the circumstance enough time)

On reflection, I was enjoying being Single.
All my life ,as a woman I had never really known autonomy.

Which for a woman is okay for a very short while.
However likely a bad choice long-term.

Then I woke up one day , reminiscent about my previous marriages , and decided I would very like that lifestyle again. Because it has always suited me to commited to one man only

Which ever way we choose to look at it . Exclusivity with a Man you love is a worthwhile & sensible choice for a couple to make.

At that time there were 3 men , who I loved & adored & truth is had the weather been right , I would have happily married anyone of them. Each of them were wonderful.

I checked in to see if or how they were fixed.

When it was clear they were to be left behind.

I chose to be absolutely intentional, with the next man ,I would fall for.

That was six months ago. I met a wonderful man . And l...ast we were married.☺️🎉💞🎊

The message is this .. If a man is intentional, you will not be guessing . Not for a single minute as to how deeply he feels about you.


Neither would you be concerned/ or worrying about texting him . Where there is love ..who on earth would worry?

If you are , whatever relationship - it is . you have together, thus far is nowhere near reality.

A ' reality which you would both need it to be .. so that it works .

Wishing you love 💝, light 🕯️ and emotional happiness 💕