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I lied about being gay

I am a girl in an all guy friend group, a while ago we started hanging out more than just at school, and rumors of me sleeping with them and being a whore started spreading. Once when walking beside my male friend to class, I was stopped and asked if we were dating by the same dude who had asked my friend how much he would have to pay him to fuck me. In a stupid quick response i told his that I was lesbian even though I’m not.
I’ve seen him tell others about it, some of them who’ve started ignoring me. I don’t know what to do. I’m not in love with my buddies. I just want to be able to have friends without being labeled either as gay in an offensive way, or a slut.
That's easy enough... just point out that it's none of their business.

The world would be a better place if people spent half the time they spent with their noses in other people's business with their nose in their own business instead.
smiler2012 · 56-60
{@cardboarddustox] 😣sorry that is the case it just shows what small minded bigots some people are .it seems what ever you tell them your damned for either so called friends. they are not anything of the kind as if they where they would accept you for what you are
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
Why tf are they so far into your business. Don't they have like homework to catch up on? When I was in college all I had time for apart from classes was eat sleep and cram for tests.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
Start telling people the truth, tell them you didn't like how he was looking at you and he was hitting on you making you uncomfortable so you lied to him to get him to leave you alone
If your happiness is based on other peoples opinions you will always be a slave.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
Your guys friends should be the first to shut that stuff down and if they aren't handing it properly then I would reconsider if they are truly my friends at all. Also this is a crazy world and if these guys aren't standing up for you I honestly don't think that its a great idea for school age girl to go to guys house with a bunch of dudes hanging out.
Their own friends are asking to pay to have sex with you and they aren't punching them immediately.
Wise up for your safety.
If you are actually in your 20s my advice is almost the same except that I suppose you can look out for yourself more but your friends still don't sound A1
Most guys, if they think for even a minute they can have sex with you, they will try. You have to be straight and tell them you are not interested. I had a guy flirt with me for months once. I kept telling him that I thought of him only as a friend but he wouldn't hear it. I had to put my foot down and he didn't bother me after that but I didn't stay friends with him.
Lostpoet · M
Your true guy friends don't view you as sexual.
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Did your friend deck this asshat? Or at least tell him to F' himself?

People will find a way to talk shit about a person no matter what. Just to be mean. Don't worry about them.
You should not have lied. You have to tell them or him that you are NOT interested like that. Friends or nothing.
I never believed you when you said you were gay because you said it with a straight face. 🤭
Dontwant2beknown · 13-15
@Ryderbike I wouldn't say that I'm unhappy, just wanted to get it off my chest since I felt stupid
Send nudes.
Are you sure it's necessary? I didn't think we were living in an era where if a girl hangs out with a bunch of guys then people just assume she's putting out for all of them
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP What kind of question is that? She already explained that this IS in fact happening to her so why ask if it's necessary because people don't assume that stuff these days. They ARE already assuming that. And I'm not sure where you live but yes this type of thinking is still common.
@REMsleep the kind that probes for misunderstandings
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