I just can't take it with her anymore

Poll - Total Votes: 29

Tell her straight up

Give up

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There's this girl right? And I am OBSESSED with her, to the point where she's the first thing I think of in the morning and the last thing I want to think about at night. I've been trying to tell her how I feel but I always stop myself because I became THAT friend for her. The friend she talks to about guys and what to do, so I always stop myself because I think it's just going to be pointless since she's not interested, even though we always have like... I don't know how to explain it well but just those kinda moments and it makes me believe otherwise. This has been going on for months and I can't take it anymore and I'm thinking I just blurt it out or just giving up all together. I'm gonna put a poll and please help me decide

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CloudAngel80 · 41-45, F

I went through that recently...i had an IMMEDIATE attraction to "him". When our eyes met, "Him" made my heart flutter, my whole mindset focusing on EVERYTHING he said or did, until one day "Him" said, ( YOURE SUCH A GOOD FRIEND, IM GLAD YOU U DON'T TRY TO JUST BE ONE SIDED OR JEALOUS OF MY GF.)
Andnow, "him" abd "her" ate happy and i feel betrayed. I told " him" how i felt and the response was, thanks for all you do for me...WOW it cut like a knife, a deep dark sting...so if I were you, write that personal note and have them read it. Watch their face and hope for the best...<friend zone sucks, ESPECIALLY when that friend is dating the one you like...