I’m tired of feeling like I’m not enough

Every relationship that I’ve attempted has ended the same way and I’m beginning to think it’s my fault. They all ghosted me. I’m not going to be the one who constantly tries to start a conversation for it to end within 10 seconds. I am not a talkative person and half the time I have to force myself to be sociable. I suck at texting and talking over the phone. I don’t think I’m good at holding conversations. I like to stay home and watch tv and play video games. I like to eat and go places as long as it’s not a bar or a club. I’m not exactly a fun or adventurous person. I’m boring. I need to learn to accept that.

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Zaphod42 · 46-50, M

I know exactly what you mean. I’m much the same way, and every relationship I’ve had ended in disaster until I met my current GF. Before I met her though, I took 6 years off from dating to analyze myself and my wants, and prayed to the universe to deliver what I wanted when the time was right. I’ve now been with my GF for over 7 years and I fully expect this one will last. It wasn’t easy though…I had a ton of faults to work out, I was super lucky to have a woman willing to be patient with me and slowly show me how to be a better person.

Just don’t give up, and be certain of yourself and what it is you want in a relationship. There’s at least one person out there that you’ll click with on all the important levels 🙂