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It was time to come home when the street lights came on…

Course we didn’t know about people like Jeffrey Dahmer back then either.
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
@JustGoneNow 💯 on the street lights! 😆
@bijouxbroussard that’s only when I was in town too, but it was usually sundown on the ranch. It’s a lot of land and there’s dangerous stuff you can’t see at night.
sarabee1995 · 26-30, FVIP
I played outside if you count the fenced in back yard. When I was old enough to be anywhere else, I had a cell phone and mom called it. If I ever didn't answer, I lost it and the privilege of leaving the yard.

But absolutely if I didn't eat the dinner mom made, then I got no dinner or dessert or snack that night. That was my dad's rule and he wouldn't budge. The next meal was breakfast. Sometimes mom would bring me a snack. It was our secret! 🤫
@sarabee1995 t Something I’ve noticed with friends now (I don’t comment on it, but it’s weird to me); there’s almost like a "short order cook" approach, making different meals for each family member.

My friends’ daughter decided to go vegan, so her mother made her special vegan meals separate from the others, youngest son decided he only wanted ramen—that’s what he got.

I wondered what would’ve happened if I’d decided I no longer wanted to eat meat as a kid ? Possibly I would’ve just been given extra vegetables to replace the meat. When my mother became a vegetarian years later, that was how she adapted her personal meals, while cooking meals that included meat for the rest of the family.

I learned to cook vegan and vegetarian meals so that when I visited home I could prepare dishes especially for Mom that the others might enjoy, too.
@bijouxbroussard for me, it’s just us two. I eat what she eats. Ha ha.

When I was a kid… we were a food producer, so I ate what was served or went hungry until the next meal.
sarabee1995 · 26-30, FVIP
@bijouxbroussard Yeah, a LOT of my friends' houses were like that when I was growing up ("short order cook" meal times). And I think my mom would've been like that except that my dad was so against the concept. We didn't do regular breakfast or lunch as a family, but dinner we did. And it was one meal. It was a big thing for my grandfather as well ... likely where dad got it from.
Yes 🙋‍♀️
Carla · 61-69, F
My mom used my dads dog whistle to call for us( i now have that same whistle on my key chain) If it was near dark, we'd best be in hearing distance. She knew it was useless to blow it during the day as we could be miles away on our trusty steeds. We had personal freedom then that children now just do not have. Mom and dad were good about letting us live in that way. Most of the kids i knew had those same freedoms.
As for food, mom was pretty good at not making us eat what we didn't like. My sister would eat only pbj for much of her youth. My tastes were varied, so i would try most everything. But a forced trial with beets, which i promptly threw up, was the last of forced tastings.(i told her the smell was all i needed). My father laughed so hard that night.

And yes, i know i am old...
@Carla I think it’s also a rural country thing. Most of the time I was with my parents way out in the country on their land and even today cell service out there sucks. I can get one bar in the farmhouse but most of the 400 acres there’s no service at all. The swimming pond on our land doesn’t but if you hike it about a mile and a half to the low rise hill out there you can get about half a bar. Needless to say, most of my childhood out there was similar to yours.
Yep. I remember sitting at the dinner table while everyone else watched tv because I hadn’t finished eating.
Now I always clear my plate, or try to
Yep! Roamed with the other neighbourhood kids to near by creeks and farms. Just had to be home by dark.
Micro · 36-40, M
🤚 but I hid my vegetables under the plate..
@Micro My brother put his broccoli in an envelope and offered to mail it to whichever "starving children" whose address could be found. ☺️
Be home when the street lights come on.
Gangstress · 41-45, F
Was having this convo with my partner.
Never got asked what i wanted. We ate the same dinner all of us.no special chickrm nuggets for me lol.
And yep we played outside and talked away for hours. Real connections.
Mum used yell 'dinners ready' if we didnt turn up. Cold dinner it was. We soon learnt lol
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
Sounds about right!
JustNik · 51-55, F
We were lucky, I think. ☺️
SW-User
eyeno · M
Exactly..!

Will a paw do..,

Summertime was 'bye mom, I'll be home by dinner time' and off on my bike to have adventures with my friends.
I say this all the time: I'm so happy I was born when I was and I'd hate to be a kid now growing up in the age of social media.
Scribbles · 36-40, F
@robingoodfellow I'm jealous. That sounds like a great summer as a kid. Glad you got to experience that :)
DragonFruit · 70-79, M
🙋🏻‍♂️
Scribbles · 36-40, F
🙋🏻‍♀️
Axeroberts · 56-60, M
things were safer back then. at least where i came from
@Axeroberts John Walsh doesn’t think so.
@Axeroberts We did have the Zodiac Killer. I remember that putting a damper on us being out too late.
Axeroberts · 56-60, M
@bijouxbroussard i remember the son of sam but that was not what was going on where i was. not to mention Charles Manson
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
Yes, except I learned to prepare food for myself that I liked as and when I needed to.
@PhilDeep I learned some basic snacks that I made for myself and my siblings.
caPnAhab · 26-30, M
I guess that makes me old. I wouldn't have thought just yet
@caPnAhab Were you the youngest child ?
caPnAhab · 26-30, M
@bijouxbroussard I was the oldest.... living at the house anyways
Poppies · 61-69, F
I was reading inside a lot more than playing outside
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
Just how it was growing up for me also
SW-User
That was me and I’m not old
oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M
oh been there done that ,,,lol did the same with my children
Canuckle · 51-55, M
Totally relate
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
The same with me.
plasticpants02 · 70-79, M
Dino11 · M
Like wise. 👍
DrWatson · 70-79, M
🙋🏻‍♂️🙋🏻‍♂️🙋🏻‍♂️

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Iwantyourhotwife · 22-25
What a sad world here in the west, at war with the family unit
@Iwantyourhotwife I don’t know that we’re at war as much as technology has really changed some things in a more obvious way. Some things some of us miss from those days, but not everything.
SW-User
Yes 😌 I actually had a childhood. 😎 🌳 ☀️

So many kids of today are struggling mentally bc of their lame parents lack of incentive willingness to find motivation to take them outside for the greater good ~ they’re too busy looking for a pity party online while their kids stare at a screen all day.
Pfuzylogic · M
Oh the memories of pig brains and rubber band squid casseroles. 😅
@Pfuzylogic Now we didn’t have that, but we disliked broccoli for much of our lives because Mom boiled it to sludge (désolé, Maman). Later, when I discovered steamed broccoli with butter, it was a revelation. 😊
Pfuzylogic · M
@bijouxbroussard
My mom hates cooking. Once I left the home she finally got Spaghetti down! 😅
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
Same goes for me too

 
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