Were you unsure of your loved ones' after death wishes?

I apologize I know I've written so many posts of my dad's battle with aggressive cancer and his passing. It's my only outlet really and it was so sudden it still feels like a blur ...

But now I'm wondering what my dad wished for after passing.. burial or cremation. My mom didn't ever discuss it either with him so she's doing cremation.
I guess I'm ok with it but I do wish he was at a cemetery. I guess also what matters most is that he's always with us in spirit.💞

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soar2newhighs

My condolences to you. You do not need to apologize.
May your father rest in peace or better said, his spirit be at peace.
If I may say, if your dad is cremated or buried, it’s his relationship with you and those times he smiled at/ with you. The times when he gave you support, comfort and guidance; and take those moments as building blocks to assuage your mourning.

And you are not alone. Many of us have been where you are. We understand.
Be well.